- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
My Darling Husband and I had planned to start TTC towards the end of the year. As I thought about our situation more and more and visited my OBGYN I really think we just need to start trying now. My Darling Husband is 38 he will be 39 in May. He talks alot about retiring at 60 and then we will move. We have seriously been looking into buying a house on an island outside the US. I had a heart to heart with him last night and just laid it out that the average couple can take 6 months to 1 year to concieve so it probably wouldn’t happen right away. The only thing holding him back is our 3 year old is a challenge most of the time because of some behaivoral issues which he goes to the doctor today for more testing they believe he has Sensory Intigration Disorder. I’m a Stay-At-Home Mom and my Darling Husband thinks I will get to stressed I really don’t believe I will. I really think if we are going to do this we need to just do it if we wait to long I really don’t know that it will happen at all. I also tried to explain how much I truely want another child. I think he finally got it and we bought our first item towards TTC some Pre Seed Lube. So wish me luck and hopefully in a few weeks we will be trying. Any helpful advice would be greatly appreciated also. My 3 year old was an opps and I was on BC so I have never actually TTC before.