Post # 1
It’s so sad that we’re all upset about our bridesmaids. Let’s talk about how awesome some of them are!
I was just talking to my Maid/Matron of Honor. We were looking at bridesmaids dresses online and I was okay with telling her which ones I didn’t like, but I said I felt weird about it, since its THEIR dresses that THEY’LL be paying for.
Then she went on a two minute rant about how it’s my day and what I say goes and no I won’t be a bridezilla, it’s their duty to wear whatever I like, these will be pictures -I’ll- be looking at for the rest of my life!!
It was nice that she is so flexible and so accomodating and understanding. I love her!
Now, I’d like to say that I do have a problem Bridesmaid or Best Man. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows over here, in Bride Allegrovivo land. But I’m happy about my Maid/Matron of Honor and her attitude!! 🙂
Post # 3
I loooooove my MOH! She is my best friend and has been more than overly helpful. She is throwing me an incredible bridal shower this weekend too.
My other two BMs (cousin and FSIL) are great. They have helped when/if they can and certainly haven’t complained about anything or made things difficult.
So praise for my bridal party here!!!
Post # 4
My Maid/Matron of Honor and one of my bridesmaids are awesome, and always happy to look at the random crap I send them for opinions. My sister (other BM) isn’t involved at all. but at least she isn’t doing anything evil either 🙂
Post # 5
…would just like to say way to go California positivity…. since we are all in the beautiful CA. 😉
Post # 6
@loving_life yeah, a couple of my BMs aren’t overly involved at the moment, but it’s okay! They’re still important to me/you and they’ll be there for me/you on my/your wedding day! (lol what an awkward sentence!)
Post # 7
@Treejewel19 We are!! hahahaa! Go sunny cali!
Post # 8
Okay I am not a CA bride, but I did go to school out there, so maybe I half count 😉
I love my girls. MOHs are my SIL and BFF. They have both been amazing! Making sure one or the other is at all appointments. Already talking to the girls to set dates for shower and bachlorette. Simply helping and being there for me.
The other ladies while they don’t live in town are always checking in and making time to see catch up when they are here. They cover all aspects of my life and I couldn’t ask for better!