- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Today 4 RSVPs came in the mail while I was at work and my fiance was still home. He called me and told me that one of them said: “We don’t know who you are are but we like weddings so we will be there. Abdul & Tai’qui.”
There was no return address on the envelope or anything.
I was FUMING. Like, PISSED beyond belief. I’ve been really stressed with the wedding only 60 days away and a shit ton of other stuff going on.
And we have a HUGE guest list (almost 300 people), so I do not have time/money/patience to deal with sh*t like this.
My fiance and I kept speculating who it could possibly be – if one of our friends or family members could possibly be that rude.
But we couldn’t think of who would do it.
So then I got hom and looked at the RSVP card. And the hand writing looks like my mom’s. Like she was trying to disguise her hand writing.
My mom is NOT a practical joker AT ALL. And she knows how stressed I’ve been about the wedding so I can’t see how or why she’d do something like this.
I was ready to call her and FREAK OUT but I didn’t. I didn’t want to accuse her of something like that.
But …. I am really upset!
I posted on Facebook about this and got, like, 12 responses immediately with people saying how rude and inconsiderate this is, whether it’s real or a joke.
So, like ….. what would you do? What should I do?
If it was my mom …. seriously …. I will be so pissed…..
The reasons I’m so upset are varied. First, if the invitaton DID go to someone other than the intended recipient, then the person/people I wanted to invite didn’t get their mail.
Second, if a stranger shows up at my wedding, I will be LIVID. Do not crash my wedding expecting free food and alcohol.
Third, if it was a legit guest pulling a practical joke, that’s just pointless, rude, and inconsiderate. We DO have to have a count of guests for the caterer and bakery. We’re planning on making a seating chart. WTF are we supposed to do with 2 mystery guests?
ERGH!!!! So frustrated!!!