(Closed) We should have thrown you a shower!… Oh well…

posted 7 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh man, I’m sorry.  This would have made me pretty upset too 🙁

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Your wedding is not till Oct 1st right? It’s not to late. That gives her two weeks and she she be told that. IMO

It sounds like she has avoided talking about it just to get out of it and thinks bringing it up now and saying sorry makes it ok. that sux.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I agree with luvmyDwight.  Also, hugs.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Its so NOT to late!! and Im sorry.. That must have been so akward. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Wow, was that her way of telling you they’re not throwing you one? not the best way I guess. Sorry doll, such an awkward moment.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.ChubbyBunny:That is really shitty for lack of a more eloquent term. That’s flat out saying that your aren’t important enough to put energy into. So messed up. Quit having your stuff in Texas so I can throw you a shower 😛

 

My face palm moment comes from my mom a few days ago. She told me that she would have gladly helped me pay for my wedding maybe even paid for all of it if I hadn’t moved out. If I had stayed living at home I would get help. Instead they are giving that money to my step sister to help with her second child after paying for everything for her first.

So basically I’m too adult to need help because I moved into my own studio apartment when I went to college, but she isn’t grown up enough to take care of her children even though she moved out too. I dont get it.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Is it possible they’re just trying to throw you off so they can surprise you?  I hope so.  

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.ChubbyBunny: Sorry I didn’t mean for you to ask her or anyone for a party. I wouldn’t want to do that either. I let my emotions get the best of me and sometimes don’t think before I speak/write. I just hate it when ppl make other ppl “feel like shit”

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.ChubbyBunny:My step sister’s are the golden children. They always get shit from my family.

I’m sorry your BMs are being like that. Want me to unleash some red-headed fury. I haven’t done that in awhile, it may get messy, but it might make you feel better.

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