MemberI went to dinner with one of my BMs last night and in the middle of eating, she just up and said, “we all should have thrown you a shower, I guess it’s too late now. Oh well”
Yeah, some thoughts should just be kept to yourself. I didn’t say anything but how do you even reply to that?
Anyone else have a facepalm moment lately?
MemberOh man, I’m sorry. This would have made me pretty upset too 🙁
MemberYour wedding is not till Oct 1st right? It’s not to late. That gives her two weeks and she she be told that. IMO
It sounds like she has avoided talking about it just to get out of it and thinks bringing it up now and saying sorry makes it ok. that sux.
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MemberIts so NOT to late!! and Im sorry.. That must have been so akward.
MemberWow, was that her way of telling you they’re not throwing you one? not the best way I guess. Sorry doll, such an awkward moment.
MemberShe isn’t my Maid/Matron of Honor (MOH is OOT) so I didn’t expect a shower from anyone truthfully. But I also didn’t expect someone to bring it up either. I wish she would have just said nothing so I could have thought that no one had considered it. Now that I know someone had considered it and just decided not to makes me feel like shit. I don’t want to ask for a party. Thanks for the support though 😉
Member@Mrs.ChubbyBunny:That is really shitty for lack of a more eloquent term. That’s flat out saying that your aren’t important enough to put energy into. So messed up. Quit having your stuff in Texas so I can throw you a shower 😛
My face palm moment comes from my mom a few days ago. She told me that she would have gladly helped me pay for my wedding maybe even paid for all of it if I hadn’t moved out. If I had stayed living at home I would get help. Instead they are giving that money to my step sister to help with her second child after paying for everything for her first.
So basically I’m too adult to need help because I moved into my own studio apartment when I went to college, but she isn’t grown up enough to take care of her children even though she moved out too. I dont get it.
MemberIs it possible they’re just trying to throw you off so they can surprise you? I hope so.
Member@Corilee13: yeah as if I wasn’t already struggling with feeling forgotten with the utter lack of participation from all 6 BMs. Yay!
Your mom has zero priorities. If you are responsible enough to have children, you’re responsible enough to pay for them…. Wow.
Member@Mrs.ChubbyBunny: Sorry I didn’t mean for you to ask her or anyone for a party. I wouldn’t want to do that either. I let my emotions get the best of me and sometimes don’t think before I speak/write. I just hate it when ppl make other ppl “feel like shit”
Member@Mrs.ChubbyBunny:My step sister’s are the golden children. They always get shit from my family.
I’m sorry your BMs are being like that. Want me to unleash some red-headed fury. I haven’t done that in awhile, it may get messy, but it might make you feel better.
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