(Closed) we talked and its over

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Are you seeing a therapist? 

Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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Browneyedbelle92 :   It is indeed for the best.  He is cruel and I feel sorry for his next victim.  Please take time to rebuild your self esteem.  You deserve far better, and I hope you realize it one day.  Wishing you well.  πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

He sounds like a complete ass hat.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

I second PP. Please look into counseling. I’m glad you realize it was all for the best but you sound horribly depressed. You need to talk to somebody. 

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I’m sorry you had a terrible night. That’s why we tried to tell you not to call him. Please don’t contact him again, Bee. You’re better off without him. 

And please reach out to a therapist, it will do wonders for your anxiety. I suffer from GAD, so I can speak first hand of the benefits. 

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

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Browneyedbelle92 :  I’m very sorry you’re going through this.  Try and look at this as a golden opportunity to focus 100% of your time and energy on becoming your best self and making yourself happy. You can start counselling, spend time with family and friends, treat yourself to things and experiences you wouldn’t normally be able to do with a partner.  Time will help heal the pain, but it will take some effort on your part to move on and take back control of your life.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

I am so sorry you’re hurting πŸ™ breakups are never easy, even when it’s for the best. It comes with a lot of doubt, questions, pain… All of that. I also suffer from GAD so I know your mind is probably all over the place, but I agree with other PPs that you should try to get some therapy/counseling, it will help you so much. I had an ex who kind of pulled the same thing, he would tell me how he’s so ready to date and all of that, but it was all a show. He was trying to prove he was perfectly fine without me… Until I got into a new relationship (with my now FI). Then he came back telling me we had too much history and he wants to try again. It was too late by then, but it was crazy to see how things changed when he knew I no longer wanted to be with him. Keep yourself occupied with work, school, family, friends… Whatever makes you feel better. Exercise is a great anxiety reliever that I recently discovered. I feel AMAZING after sweating a bit. Keep your head up, bee! You can get through this! πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

I am so sorry you’re hurting πŸ™ breakups are never easy, even when it’s for the best. It comes with a lot of doubt, questions, pain… all of that. I also suffer from GAD so I know your mind is probably all over the place, but I agree with other PPs that you should try to get some therapy/counseling, it will help you so much. I had an ex who kind of pulled the same thing, he would tell me how he’s so ready to date and all of that, but it was all a show. He was trying to prove he was perfectly fine without me… Until I got into a new relationship (with my now FI). Then he came back telling me we had too much history and he wants to try again. It was too late by then, but it was crazy to see how things changed when he knew I no longer wanted to be with him. Keep yourself occupied with work, school, family, friends… Whatever makes you feel better. Exercise is a great anxiety reliever that I recently discovered. I feel AMAZING after sweating a bit. Keep your head up, bee! You can get through this! πŸ™‚

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

You’re no bother at all! It’s the middle of the day where I am so lots of American Bees are up and willing to talk to you.

 I wonder if you need some extra help to fall asleep like melatonin. Talk to your Dr about your insomnia, too! 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Just wanted to say sorry my comment posted twice! I was having trouble while trying to post it, so I kept pressing the post button. And now I can’t delete either comment lol. Like PP said, you’re not a bother! You’re going through a tough time and are looking for support. That’s understandable πŸ™‚

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

I second the exercise comment. After I broke up with my ex, I dove into the gym. Tried a lot of different things. It kept my mind busy, and I started feeling stronger and better about myself. I train and workout for the mental health benefits as well as the physical benefits.

I was heavily into triathlons for a couple of years. Then I tried Crossfit 8 months ago. I love it. It makes me happy. It helps with my anxiety 1000%. I feel strong because I know I am strong.

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