Post # 16
You’ll always find that various cultures have superstitions for random things. It doesn’t mean they’re true. If the superstition about never taking your rings off once married is true then I guess I’m screwed because I take off all my jewelry every time I get home and my husband never wears his ring because he hates jewlery. Guess we are doomed, but I’ll risk it.
Post # 17
Superstitions aren’t real..
Post # 18
myv13 : Once my then fiance and I got our wedding bands we would wear them out when we knew we wouldn’t run into anyone we knew, we were just so excited and didn’t want to wait even though we had a couple months to go till we got married.
Our marriage does not appear to be cursed from this, yet (lol).
A lot of men decide to wear their bands throughout the whole engagement, that seems “acceptable” so I don’t see why it shouldn’t be for the woman if that’s what she chooses to do.
Post # 19
Do you really believe in bad luck? Who monitors this sort of stuff if so? Is there like a bad luck fairy who watches you and is like “Ah hah! Susie broke a mirror!!! Enjoy cancer!”
Post # 20
myv13 : not a big deal, but are you sure she is wearing her wedding band? She may have multiple engagement rings.
Post # 22
myv13 : “I am curious if there’s any bad karma in doing this.” Why would Karma care about someone wearing their own jewelry? Who is it hurting?
Post # 23
I don’t believe in superstitions, and there’s no such thing as “bad luck.” I would find it odd if someone did this, but it’s none of my damn business either way. If it makes her happy, then she should do as she wishes and you should keep your thoughts to yourself.
Post # 24
DrAtkins : Side note: I got my dad a mug that has this on it for Christmas and he literally got choked up and said it was the most beautiful quote he had ever heard.
Post # 25
With the stacked ring craze, maybe they decided that this is her engagement set and plan to add another one for the wedding.
Post # 27
I am also prepped for the comments we’ll get when both Fiance and I aren’t wearing wedding bands…so I’m trying to look outside the box.
Post # 28
I personally would wait until my wedding day to wear my wedding band, because I think it’s special that way. But there is no bad luck in wearing rings with or without being married.
Post # 29
- Wedding: June 2017 - A vineyard
The full set is kinda wierd to me because for me the wedding ring doesn’t get worn til after the wedding… but it’s not me doing it. She can do what she wants basically. So if that means she wants to wear her full set prior to marriage then that’s her business 🙂
Post # 30
I thought the superstition was it’s bad luck to wear a ring on your ring finger prior to being engaged. That’s what my mum used to say to me