(Closed) Wedding as Dance Party for Bride and Bridesmaids

posted 6 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I plan to avoid dancing as much as possible…we’re considering not even having a dance floor!  I think that is so rude.  Brides are often so rude.  They think they get this special day and that means they can treat everyone like crap.  UM…that’s not how it works.  Also, it’s TWO people getting married!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’ve never been to a wedding like that.  Sounds weird…  I agree that it’s odd/rude of the bride to not visit with guests.  Of course she should dance & enjoy herself, too, but not at the expense of ignoring her guests.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

So the dance floor was only large enough for the bridal party?  That sounds like poor planning to me.  Otherwise I have no problems with brides hanging on the dance floor, it makes the party more fun!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I danced a lot at my wedding but made sure I made my rounds and spent time with my guests.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

I think that, as the bride, the day just goes by so fast. I know that I spent two years planning for this one special day and I would really like to enjoy myself (and that means dancing! Woohoo!). I think it’s easy to get wrapped up in the moment and not even realize how quickly the time has gone by. (Although it’s very strange that the dance floor was not large enough for all the guests. 🙂

All that being said, Fiance and I will be going table to table during dinner to say hello and thank guests for coming.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I was guilty of this. I was caught up in the moment, as most brides are, and I love to dance with my friends, so it was a release after the stress of planning a wedding for months.

Since I knew I wanted to tear up the dance floor, I made sure to make my rounds to say thanks earlier on – but yes, some guests left without saying goodbye, because by that time I was full on stress relief and dancing it up.

I do feel bad that I didn’t stop dancing, but whats done is done. Just know that I am sure that these brides were very happy that you were there, its just an emotional time, and the first thing the couple wants to do is to blow off some steam in the form of dancing excersize! 🙂

Post # 9
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Helper bee

…Why is everyone concerned with the bride ignoring her guests, and nobody’s mentioned the groom yet? Shouldn’t the groom be kind of high on the bride’s priority list?

 

Huh.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

My Darling Husband and I went to every single table to say hello, and then for the last hour, made sure we made it out onto the dance floor. Our dance floor was big enough to accommodate everyone and their guests though…I didn’t have any issues with anyone coming over to me to say goodbye or to chat. It’s all about making yourself approachable. 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We’re going to our cocktail hour so that we can greet guests, and while we hope we can see everyone during the cocktail hour, if we need to we’ll also go table to table in order to make sure that we greet each and every guest and thank them for coming.

But I’m going to be on the dance floor for most of the night and I’m not going to feel bad about it.  We’re inviting all of our family and out-of-town guests to the rehearsal dinner and the morning-after brunch.  There will be time for catching up and extended conversations.  Our reception is going to be a PARTY and I’m not going to miss it on the sidelines.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I do think that it’s important to greet and thank your guests, but this would not bother me at all. If anyone deserves to drink and dance at a party they planned, it’s the bride.

This seems to contradict the “it’s your day! you what you want!” mentality that people push on brides, unless it only extends to making people wear what you want them to wear?

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@peachacid:  “brides are often very rude” –> speak for yourself.

Do you realize you’re one a BRIDAL FORUM?

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@nmarie33:  We weren’t glued at the hip at our wedding.  I mean we danced together for a couple of songs and but it was touch and go.  I mean I see my husband every day of my life, and there are so many people there I never get to see, it just made sense to split up for part of the time. 

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