(Closed) Wedding band dilema for Star engagement ring

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Honestly I just wouldn’t do a wedding band. That’s so much ring by itself that I don’t know that you could find a wedding band that would compliment without looking like too much.

Maybe you can get a right hand ring that you really love that has meaning on its own.

by the by I put star eternity ring in google and came up with this, which is not really my style but still really pretty I think!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

honestly, because of the shape, i don’t think you can wear another ring on the same finger…plus it will just be a little much going on on the one finger.  i would just wear your wedding band on the other hand.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I really like that the ring is going to stand for something sentimental, however I will run the risk of sounding rude just to be honest with you: I don’t really love the ring & I think you could find something enternity style & star shaped (or custom design one) that would look less cheesy since that is something that concerns you.

Best of luck!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Kat: the OP wasn’t asking for opinions on her ring- she was asking for help on what kind of corresponding band to wear. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Kat: LOL! Did we forget about avoiding “hypocritical nonsense” already?? I’ll just go ahead and quote you from last week:

“…sometimes it’s better not to say anything at ALL if you have nothing nice to say in return. I thought we were all taught that lesson a while ago”

OP, I agree that your best bet is to wear your rings on two separate hands, if that’s the ring you are choosing.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Mrs. Meowerson: Thanks for the clarification..

In that case, since apparently I’m considered TOTALLY unaware of how to comprehend a simple question, I would say go with a plain white gold or platinum band. Unless you want to heed my prior advice to custom create a ring that would allow for more options in the way of wedding bands.

I like the rings suggested by Kala way..

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i think you could get a band custom made that looks like one of the ‘rays’?? i have no clue what the tail of the shotting star is called… hrmmm.. this is a tough one.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I love the ring, and I know how hard it is to find a wedding band when the ring is unique I have his Oma’s ring and there is not a match to it anymore….

 

annnyway so this is what I found… I also found one for him incase he too wanted a star ring….
for him:

 

for you

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@littlemissmango: The difference is that I was trying to be helpful here and give her a critical opinion that I felt she could benefit from. If you need me to quote myself from previous posts, I can do so. I also distinctly remember saying that you shouldn’t say something that can be construde as hurtful unless it is with the intent to be productive and helpful.

^^ Exactly what I was trying to do.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

@Kat: To quote the OP, “I am also stuck, but would not change the engagement ring for anything, it’s just so perfect.” While the engagement ring might not be your taste, it’s clearly hers, and I don’t think calling it “cheesy” is productive or helpful in any way.

OP, I agree with the posters who suggested wearing your e-ring and wedding band on separate hands. I think anything other than a super simple plain band will be too much with the e-ring. I’d just choose a wedding band you love and wear it on your other hand.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I personally would not get a wedding band. Do you want a wedding band? I know a lot of people that have unique e-rings but do not want a custom band will wear the e-ring on their right hand, and a wedding band on the left.

It’s totally up to you!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think you’re going to have to get something custom made.  You could probably get a “simple” or “plain” band made that will contour the bottom of the ring.  I wouldn’t get anything that is busy because that will take away from the unique engagement ring you’ll have.  

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

just to second the no wedding ring suggestion- i just have one ring for engagement/wedding and it is very powerful on its own, like yours- you wont feel like you missed out or anything if you just decide to stick with the one ring.

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