(Closed) Wedding Bands? Who pays?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
716 posts
Busy bee

it’s up to you as a couple I guess.  talk with your Fiance and whatever works for you.

Post # 4
5423 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

Its whatever works for you both.  We bought each others.

Post # 5
11270 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i really don’t know.  i guess it’s up to the couple.  isn’t it usually combined with the wedding budget?

my dh bought me my diamond eternity band.  it was not cheap.

we also got me a plain band and i can’t remember who paid for it.  dh picked out his band.  i think he paid for it.

Post # 6
2652 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

I’ve only heard that people buy each others. We used our wedding fund to pay for them both, but I swiped when we got his and he swiped when we got mine. We went shopping together though (well, his was an online purchase but he was there when I ordered it and when I picked it up).

Post # 7
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I always thought you were technically supposed to buy each others. Our money was basically combined at that point, so it didn’t really matter who paid, it was ‘our’money.

Post # 8
865 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

we bought each others’. whatever works for you! he offered to buy both, but I wanted his ring to symbolically be ‘from me’. :}

Post # 9
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

 Tune out your family members and do what YOU and Your Fiance wants to do.


Post # 10
1079 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We bought our own.  Mine was more expensive than his and it felt like it was my turn to buy the expensive ring.

Post # 12
1241 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I swiped the card because his was actually twice the price of mine, but we basically considered our money as the same now. My mom and grandma were not happy that he wasn’t officially paying for mine, but didn’t press the issue, since really it doesn’t matter!

Post # 13
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

My Fiance refuses to let me buy the wedding rings. They’re both pricey we’ll shell about 3k on those rings. I offered to buy his, but he refused to let me. Note Fiance makes more money and knows it he covers most of our expenses. I cover my phone, car, insurance, my kid, my school costs, 90% of the food costs, and about 50% of the incidentals for the house. Fiance views all the money as collective even though its in separate accounts though so it doesnt matter at this point in our eyes. If he couldnt cover a bill I’d pay it in a heart beat everything is ours not mine or his. We have the lease in our names and will transfer the cars over in the next few months. I’m his benificiary and legal right of attourney as well. So to us doesnt matter though wont lie he pays the most.

Post # 14
4713 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1998

We split the cost

Post # 15
3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hmm, honestly I am not really sure who is supposed to buy what. We were pretty untraditional about the whole thing. I paid for half of my e-ring even though he tried to talk me out of it, but I felt it was fair I paid half. Then I bought his ring (super inexpensive) and he paid for most of mine. The reason I said he paid for “most” is because I gave him an amount of $ and he transferred that to me. Then at the last minute I decided on something a little more expensive than what I had originally picked out and just paid the difference myself. I mean we’re going to be merging finances anyway, so it doesn’t really matter at the end of the day who pays for what.

Post # 16
1310 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Traditionally it’s supposed to be your wedding gift to your spouse. So the bride buys the groom’s, and the groom buys the bride’s. And then you give them their gift at the altar on your wedding day 🙂 That’s how we did it but there’s really no rule about it! 🙂

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