(Closed) Wedding Blahs

posted 8 years ago in African-American
Post # 3
241 posts
Helper bee

Sorry you had such a blah experience and I know how hard dealing with difficult siblings wil be. From reading other brides experiences, the best takeaway I have gained is to focus on what’s important to you and to leave out ever part of the process that is not. Good luck to you!

Post # 4
18 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

Iam so sorry you feel that way, but I know how you feel. After Mr chocolate proposed in August , I was so excited. After the proposal sunk in, I became overwhelmed! I began to secure a venue, transportation and the whole nine. When purchased my wedding dress I had my mom and my bridal party with me. I did see my mom cry. I cried too when I say myself in the right gown. Other than that Iam planning this wedding single handed. That can be disappointing and tired.

Running between  two households became overwhelming. In Dec, we got married in the court house. Now that I`am Mrs. Chocolate, the wedding has become a chore! If it were not that we spent thousands for this wedding already, I would forget about it!

What keeps me excited is I get to renew my vows in front of my parents, grandparents and close friends. I will be 50 in April and this is my first marriage. Even though we are married it does not feel complete because my pastor could not marry us because we had not yet taken our marriage counseling classes. I had really planned on marrying Mr Chocolate in church.

Maybe your sister is a little jelous. I had a little problem with my little sister. She is 42 with no childeren and no man. We talked and she is good now. Concentrate on you and your Fiance. Keep focus on what you want your wedding experience to be. Do not let anyone steal your joy! After all it will be God, your husband and you that will determine your happiness! My focus is the expression on my husband`s face when I waltz down the aisle with my grandpa to get to him!

I will be praying for you! Much blessings to you and your impending marriage!




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