(Closed) Wedding blues… (long rant)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m about to walk out the door but I just wanted to say you aren’t alone. I will write more when I get back. Hugs. 

Post # 4
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Newbee

That is a lot you are going through. This is silly but if you need someone to wedding talk I am here to listen! My boyfriend and I are not engaged yet but have been talking a lot about it. I am in love with weddings and being there for the people. I do think you should take to you fiance about it all. Maybe he does not see how excited you are or how upset you have become. You sound like a strong woman I do believe things will work out for the best and things will be ok. I think this is a chance to make the relationship with you and your fiance strong and help you out when you become married.

Post # 5
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m back!

First, I would speak to your Fiance & share how you feel. Assume nothing. My Fiance genuinally doesn’t know sometimes when something is a big deal for me. Talk together about the budget and put it all out there. My Fiance & I talk about wedding stress. It’s mainly my family. His family is fine. You are going to have to talk openly for life with him. Now is a good time to start. 

 

With the exception of one gf all others aren’t really “there”. Something I’m learning is our wedding is about us. It’s no one else’s responsibility to have feelings about it. My mom is extremely rude and we aren’t close. I kindly put her in her place but at the end of the day I care about our excitement. Sure, I’ve seen other moms be there for their daughters but mine just isn’t. I have to accept my family & others as they are. I would come here for support & excitement. Keep a journal. 

You can absolutely have a convo about the ring and you should. He needs to know. I’ve seen e-rings for less than 500 so it’s possible. He needs to know how you are feeling. 

 

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