- 4 years ago
So this is my first time writing a post and I rather hear from other brides and get their opinion!… So I recently got married August 2013 we had a big wedding. The thing is and I’m sure a lot can relate… The wedding was totally NOT about me and my husband. My parents fought the whole time. My husbands dad was suppose to pay most of the wedding but then Got into a fight with my husband. My bridesmaids complanning the whole time about how they didn’t like the hair or makeup and I planned my own bridal and bachelorette party because they didn’t and wasn’t going too. I had no fun what so ever planning this and the day came and went. My mother didn’t even get to help me get ready and share that special moment with me which is a big deal and big tradition in our family because she had to go set up the ceremony. I also didn’t get my dream wedding dress because it was too much money and I didn’t want my mom to spend it so I never told her. Wedding is over my mom was depressed and still because she didn’t share that special moment with me and me and my husband didn’t have fun because our families were too busy being selfish. So now that we have more money and I can afford my wedding dress we were thinkomg for our 3 year anniversary to renew our vows in my childhood home just have our parents there no one else, no brides maids or groomsmen nothing big just have a little wedding again so I can share that moment with my mother and actually have fun with my husband so we both can feel we had the wedding we were wanting the first time without anyone runining it…. Please thoughts?? Anyone been through this before?? Should we go through with it again?