Post # 1
Before Fiance and I started the planning process, we discussed budget. I distinctly remember him saying “there’s no way you can do a decent wedding for 200 people under $40K!” My immediate response was, “just watch me!” LOL – I’m a bargain hunter and love finding the best deals.
Initially I thought we could do everything we wanted for about $25K but quickly realized that wasn’t feasible based on the venues we were looking at. I’ve stuck to his $40K budget for planning purposes, but think we’ll end up paying about $25K out of pocket with an additional $10K or so in gifted items from parents – so a grand total of about $35K. Most of the costs are venue (including food, alcohol, etc.) but the little things definitely add up! For reference, I’m in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, so not the most expensive market, but not cheap either.
Just curious how you’re holding to your budget and if you think you’ll come in over/under.
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Post # 2
We haven’t finished everything yet, but our initial number that we threw out was $20,000 and right now we’re pretty close. I think we will likely hit around $25,000 when all is said and done. (We didn’t really budget like we should have. We kind of said “This is what we want, lets make it happen for as little $$$ as we can manage)
Currently our reception (venue, decorations, food, alcohol, DJ) is looking like it is going to cost around $15,000.
Gifts and Favours $1000
Edited to add, we are in Manitoba, and we are expecting 125-150 guests.
Post # 3
We aren’t done yet, but it looks like we’ll be staying around our budget of $10,000 for the wedding. We set a pretty low (for our area) budget, because we want to have an insane honeymoon. To make this budget work, we are going to Canada (about a 2 hour drive for our guests) since the exchange rate is in our favor.
Venue (includes rental, catering, and open bar) – $8,000
Dress – $650
Décor (so far) – $250
Photographer – $800
DJ – $400
Photobooth – $400
Post # 4
I voted 15-25k. We initially had a budget of 10k, which I quickly realized was going to be next to impossible in Los Angeles for 150 guests. We bumped it up to 20K, but are now at 25K and will be probably end up at around 27K, not including honeymoon. This gives me the sweats lol.
Post # 5
LOL @ “the sweats” – but I know exactly what you mean. Oh, and our $35K does not include honeymoon. YIKES!
Post # 6
we are having a destination wedding in mexico and budgeted $15k, we are now at about $30k not including honeymoon. destination weddings arent always cheaper!
Post # 7
Initial budget (for 85 people): $25,000
Final cost: $25,900 🙂
However, this was only the amount that my parents paid for. DH’s parents paid an additional $3k for alcohol and $2k for rehearsal dinner, so the real total (not including rings or honeymoon) was about $31k.
Post # 8
- Wedding: July 2015 - Beautiful place.
Mine was 70k, original budget was 25k.. Didn’t happen! Weddings are very expensive. We had 230 invited, 130 made it to the wedding.
it was well spent money but.. I wish we had gone under budget.
Post # 9
We were given a budget of $31k by my parents and it’s been very very difficult to stay within it! I’m in the DC area for reference, so everything is really expensive. We are hoping to cut our guest list from 150 to 120-130 since catering and alcohol are a huge chunk of our budget. I’m sure we will end up spending a little bit more from our savings and we are saving to pay for the honeymoon and Rehearsal Dinner, which I’m expecting will be another $6-10k. My sister threw her wedding with $20k and had money leftover (not in DC) and I have no idea how she did it.
Post # 10
With 80 guests and in a major city, our budget is $30K. Before we started planning, I thought we’d be able to do it for $15K, but quickly realized that wasn’t going to happen.
Post # 11
We stayed right at our budget, and two things helped with that: first, our budget was a somewhat researched number. I think people will throw out a number that they think seems like what a wedding should cost, and then go way over budget when they realize what the costs can be. Second, I was obsessive over our budget spreadsheet. When we went over in one area, I found ways to cut back elsewhere. I think if I hadn’t been so on top of it, our $40k wedding EASILY could have turned into a $50k one without really being any nicer.
Post # 12
We went to the first meeting with our planner with an initial budget of 80K.
Based on everything we wanted, she calculated our wedding would cost 100K so we increased the budget to 100K.
I have a feeling we will be going over that.
Post # 13
Our budget is 10K (not including honeymoon). We are house shopping right now….so we can’t put all our money in a wedding.
Post # 14
Boston, MA here- we’re having our wedding just outside the city (20-25min drive) so things are slightly [read barely] cheaper.
Original budget idea was $15k (we’re having under 100 people- count will probably come out around 85) but that ended up being the cost of our venue/caterer. We still haven’t booked everything else but we’ve added photographer and entertainment to that list and we’re already over $20k. All in all we’re thinking this will top out around $30 – $35k.
Some of my friends are having much larger weddings (150+ guests) compared to ours and those will be downtown- getting a little worried for them after see what ours is costing!
Post # 15
- Wedding: July 2015 - Carmen\'s Lakeview
DH wanted to spend $12,000. I knew it would be closer to $15,000. We actually paid $15,500ish including our rings (not counting engagement ring) and not including honeymoon (about $4000). We had approx. 80 guests but had to pay for 85 as the venue had a minimum requirement. We were also given money from each of our parents to help pay for the wedding, which was appreciated 🙂