(Closed) Wedding + Busy Work Season = Disaster??

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Life is crazy planning a wedding, but if that’s when she wants it leave her alone, she’ll make it work.

Post # 4
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1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yeah, seems like she should know she’ll be busy and plan accordingly, right? She’s got plenty of time to change her mind if she wants to, but it sounds like telling her she’s wrong probably won’t convince her, just make her more resolved!

Post # 6
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135 posts
Blushing bee

If there’s no specific reason why she wants it at that time, I find it odd that she’s sticking to it even after you’ve reminded her of the busy work season. Wedding planning is crazy enough as is – if she insists on that date, I’d suggest hiring a wedding planner the month or two before the wedding to help tie up loose ends. 

Post # 7
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1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

For me, it was really the 10 days beforehand that were really, really busy. I planned from afar, though, so I travelled to the location for that 10 days and just worked my butt off with last minute projects, vendor meetings, etc.. Even when I wasn’t busy, it was hard to relax because of all the to do lists running through my head and friends/family coming into town. So personally, no, I would not have planned my wedding during a time when I knew work would be crazy, and I wouldn’t recommend it.

Post # 8
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4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

It seems like a weird choice, but since it’s her choice, I think all you can do is… well, pretty much nothing. 🙂 I hope it doesn’t mean you’ll have to work harder when she’s out in lala land!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I think she’s crazy, but if that’s what she wants, then who am I to make her feel crappy, right?

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