(Closed) Wedding canceled/ child porn..Advice needed (GRAPHIC)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What should I do?
    Say it to the cops : (731 votes)
    35 %
    Leave and Don't marry him : (558 votes)
    27 %
    Give him a chance : (6 votes)
    0 %
    He's still lying : (292 votes)
    14 %
    He can be telling the truth : (17 votes)
    1 %
    That is sick : (469 votes)
    23 %
    There is nothing wrong with that, you're overreacting : (3 votes)
    0 %
  • Post # 212
    Member
    13563 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Hey everyone. Sorry to be late updating (not that I really have any info, BUT) – Weddingbee admin was alerted to this thread much earlier today, pretty near the beginning of their workday on the West Coast. Unfortunately, that’s all I know. I’m really sorry I don’t have any more information — I promise I’d share it if I did. However, I think we’re all in agreement that this whole issue is bigger than any of us and therefore out of our (hive members’) hands at this point, but I did want everyone who is concerned to know that admin is aware.

    Also, there are a lot of pages to this thread now, so in case it’s gotten buried, the OP indicated here that she had called the police.

    We are going to leave this thread open for the time being as I know many are still interested in helping the OP, and in case the OP returns with updates.

    Thanks everyone!

    Post # 214
    Member
    291 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Gemstone: Thank you for the update!

    Post # 215
    Member
    1400 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Thank you for the update Gemstone.

    OP I’m glad you did the right thing. 

    Post # 216
    Member
    1297 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @trullyblessed811-517:  I read through the thread. I am so, so sorry that your world has been turned upside down. You were lied to in such a horrific way. We are all pulling for you here. Thank you for alerting the authorities. You did the right thing for yourself, your daughter, and every victim of sexual assault. The safety and well-being of you and your daughter are in the thoughts and prayers of many.

    Post # 217
    Member
    3367 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    @Gemstone:  Thank you!

    Post # 219
    Member
    1733 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    OP, thank you for calling the police. If you believe that this guy may be in danger of harming himself or someone else, you should make sure to let the police know that. He can be held for observation and a psychiatric evaluation if that’s the case.

    Post # 220
    Member
    29 posts
    Newbee

    it seems simple to just go to the cops. I understand that telling the police will probably be the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do in your whole life. But you need to have a legal basis for why you don’t want your daughter around him AND you don’t want to get in trouble as well, if you’re married in May, that computer belongs to both of you, and you both own the child porn. 

    Post # 221
    Member
    1718 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

    Hi hive – we’ve decided to keep this thread open as a safe space for the OP to get advice and support. While we have no way to confirm the validity of the claims made in the post, Weddingbee’s policy is to cooperate with law enforcement on any investigation against illegal activity or abuse discussed on site. Thank you to our hivemembers who have brought this to our attention today.

    Post # 222
    Member
    433 posts
    Helper bee

    @trullyblessed811-517:  

    You owe it to those poor children in the photos to report it.  The police need to investigate where the files originated from so they can stop it from happening again.  Even if the pictures are old and the kids are adults, the perpetrators are probably still doing it to other children.  I don’t care how much you love him, keeping a secret like that is wrong.  Tell the police what you found on his computer and they will sort out whether or not he is telling the truth.  Most of all, keep him the hell away from your daughter.  

    Post # 223
    Member
    385 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I still can’t believe three people voted she was overreacting.

    Post # 224
    Member
    2267 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @ZoeJane:  I can’t believe 4 said to give him a chance! Hell no!

    Post # 225
    Member
    385 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Chrysoberyl:  I know! Just sick. 

    Post # 226
    Member
    17 posts
    Newbee

    What a nightmare 🙁 I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this. Stay strong!

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