- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Hi beautiful Bees, I’m looking for some insight. I’m finishing up writing our wedding ceremony, which most of it I borrowed from the lovely Mrs. Cola!! (thank you by the way for writing a beautiful ceremony).
Anyways, I’m having trouble figuring out how we should be addressed. Everyone calls me Niki, not Nicole. But it seems that we should use our full names while being addressed by our officiant and as we exchange vows. But I think it might be strange to him address me as Nicole if he never calls me that….
The same issue goes for him but it’s slightly different. His whole family calls him Randall, and when he moved to Michigan he introduced himself to everyone as Randy. So I’m not sure how we should have him addressed either.
Would it be strange that he is addressed as Randall by the officiant, and when I read my vows I will address him as Randy? Then just have me be addressed as Niki?
What are your thoughts on this ladies? Have you experienced anything like this? On our invitations I wrote our names out as Randall & Nicole. ….
I look forward to hearing your thoughts. Thanks ladies :o)