(Closed) Wedding Date Etiquette Dilema

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 19
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8601 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

@mdwilson86:  yes have a dinner! And I don’t know if you were planning on it but an engagement party is a nice way for people who can’t make your wedding to come celebrate you (like the cousin and FIs family that will need to go to cousins over yours) 

Post # 21
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187 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

we just found out recently that my FH uncle wedding was around the same time as ours, they sent out STDs, We didn’t but family knew of our date, and then FH uncle change his date to ours even after sending STDs for a different date

but oh well, theres nothing we can do I can’t ask him to change his date and he can’t ask me to change the date 

Post # 22
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2639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Just because a deposit has been placed, it doesn’t mean that you can’t change the date- call your church/venue, and see what the options are.

I got married outdoors in July in Baltimore- a summer wedding is doable, especially since you’re having a church wedding (outdoor ceremonies in August can be brutal.)

Post # 23
Hostess
4996 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@HisIrishPrincess:  I agree.

What does Future Mother-In-Law say, OP? Is the cousin’s date set in stone? Have you looked into other possible dates for your wedding? 

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