- 9 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
Hi! This is my first post.
It looks like my boyfriend is set to orpose any day, due to a death in the family that made him realise he doesn’t want to waste any more time in his life. We are also about to have to be split up as his work permit for my country just expired among other things, its the right time for us to finally make that step. He has said he would like for us to marry next July.
Here is my problem.
Last June my oldest friend got engaged to be married Aug of next year(a two and a bit year engagement). I am going to be in her wedding party, and its in a different country than where I live. We haven’t lived in the same city for a few years. If I were too get married next July here where I live, I would be getting married 6 weeks before her, and that’s a large expense to also expect of her a few weeks before her wedding. Of course I will be going to hers, is she going to feel upstaged if I choose this date?