- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 1994
I was not really happy with the choice of bridesmaid at my wedding. Although I initially asked my husband to be to include his sisters in our bridal arrangements, i had only known them for some months (and in my niavity thought they were ok) and had to adhere to this!
After exclusion on many occasions, during my courtship with my husgand, I was reminded that I had asked them to be bridesmaids. However, the previous year his elder sister, excluded me from photographs from her wedding and could have included my in one bridal photo as I was her brother’s fiancee. No support from other family members either. However, I was still expected to keep my promise of them being my bridesmaids?
This is some time ago, but unfortunately, is a reminder. I had a lovely wedding day, but cannot forget the manipulation of sister in laws and lack of respect from mother-in-law (who is not nasty but is involved in her childrens welfare too much).