Post # 1
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Busy bee
I can’t help it. I can’t seem to find a dress that shows none. I am in love with a dress that shows some, but not over the top. It even has beading at the waist that draws the eye away from the girls. However, I am scared to buy it because my fiance, a reasonable guy who has never complained about my assets before is suddenly concerned about me showing too much on our wedding day. I agree that too much is kinda trashy, or at least misses the mark for the occasion, but I can’t tell how much is too much.
As always, I thought I’d turn to the Bees and see what you think.
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
Post pics of your cleavage! 
It really is a case-by-case thing. I don’t think anyone can say unless we see what you’re talking about.
Post # 4
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Worker bee
I wear a 38G, so this is a serious issue for me. My rule of thumb is to think about what my grandmothers’ reactions would be. If they’d be scandalized, it’s too much! If they wouldn’t even notice, it’s safe.
Really only you can decide how much is too much, based on your comfort and body type. Good luck!
Post # 5
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Busy bee
Okay, I think I figured out how to let you see. Follow this link at your own risk.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/[email protected]/
Post # 6
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Helper bee
I assume you’re not having a conservative, religious wedding, in which case your dress is fine. Your girls are not hanging out and they are not in anyone’s face, from what I can tell. Your dress looks lovely on you. But, your own comfort is what matters, and if you are going to be self-conscious about it all day, you may wish to choose a different style.
Post # 7
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Busy bee
Oh yes, I should add, it is not a church wedding. It’s evening at a winery. Thanks for the feedback.
Post # 8
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Newbee
i don’t think you look trashy at ALL in that dress! i mean, it’s not the most conservative dress out there…but far from skanky!
Post # 9
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Worker bee
Someone sent this picture to my mom today and when I read your post,it made me think of it.
I think as long as you don’t go this far, you are alright.
I should probably warn you that you are going to see a lot of cleavage
Bridal CLeavage
Post # 10
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Helper bee
I think for the venue it is completely suitable.
For a church you may want to cover it up a little bit but for an evening winery it will be lovely!
Post # 11
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Worker bee
You and your ladies look great! Go for it!
Post # 12
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Worker bee
I think you look fantastic! I think that for the more-endowed brides, covering up just makes you look bigger. (I had a reduction this year so I am very familiar with this issue!)
Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
I think it looks fine. I am having a conservative wedding, though, so I went with a bateau neckline. Menorca, La Sposa by Pronovias Otherwise, I was going to put extra lace or other fabric to cover up…
Post # 14
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Bumble bee
I think it looks fine too .. not a problem at all.
Congrats on finding the dress!
Post # 15
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Blushing bee
I think it’s taseful and your dress suits you well (as far as we can see). Cleavage isn’t just about what appears in the center, it’s also about how much of the top of your girls you expose. Clearly, the top and sides of your dress cover the (excuse the terminology) meatiest parts of your endowment, which really reduces the "whoa, hey!!" factor.
Post # 16
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Busy bee
I think it is a beautiful dress and covers the girls but doesn’t look old lady-ish. It’s perfect for your setting and time of day. Go for it!
