- 3 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
My wedding was a few weeks ago and it was nothing like I thought it was going to be. I enjoyed every minute of the planning and when something went wrong I was upset for a little while but quickly got over it and thought about the big beautiful, fun and happy day coming up! Then the BIG DAY arrived and it was nothing like that! There was no family drama etc. and a few important things got missed and messed up, but I let go of all of that as fast as it came up but here is the issue. I was exhausted and stressed for the few days leading up to the wedding, including the night before, and when I woke up and saw the terrible weather (that didn’t improve all day or night, I might add!) that with lack of sleep just got to me. I am usually a little ball of hyper and happiness and that girl just wasn’t there at all that day. No matter what I tried to do, say to myself or think about I could not stop crying every few moments and truly…I don’t even like saying this…hating our day! People were making comments through the day to me about being so upset, not trying to cheer me up, just saying that I looked so unhappy. Besides crying, I was super quiet and when I did talk I was just so mad. Example: I did a “reveal” with my groom before I walked down the isle and all I said to him, through tears, was that I hate today with this weather. I didn’t want to say that!! I had a rough plan as to what I had planned to say when I first met him like, “Well? Was it worth the wait!!!” etc. I feel robbed and cheated of my special day. 🙁 How do I move on with these life long memories? Has anyone else felt that their day was a let down, or am I the only one to feel this way?