Post # 1
Today I went and had my trial hair done for the wedding, my guy picked me up and said WOW and it wasn’t in a good way. I thought it looked good but wasn’t sure. He thinks I should wear my hair the way I do every day. Now I feel terrible. Should I keep looking for another style or go with the norm.
Post # 3
I think guys always go for a more natural style on thier girls.. remember he fell in love with you the way you are everyday.
Pick something that you LOVE.. you said you weren’t real sure about it…
Is it a complete updo maybe you could do half/half something tosseled more natural looking but at the same time elegant..
Post # 4
Could you show him a few pictures of styles you’re thinking of and let him make the call? I know how you feel – you want your guy to think you look stunning on your wedding day! I asked my Fiance if he wants me to wear my hair totally up or half up/half down. He asked me to show him some photos so I’ll let him pick the general style, but work the details out with my stylist.
Post # 5
For a man, formal hair and regular clothes typically just don’t mix so i’m sure it was more of that then actually not liking it. When he sees it on the big day, in the appropriate surroundings, I’m sure he will.
Post # 6
I think guys are used to you looking a certain way, so when they see something different they think it’s weird. My fiance always makes a comment when I wear a shirt that’s a little more colorful or trendy, or I do my hair differently. It might have just looked odd with your hair all done and you wearing a t-shirt and jeans! Once you have the whole look together he might not even realize it’s the same hairdo!
Post # 7
@farfromordinarybride: haha, we were posting at the same time so I just repeated everything you said!
Post # 8
Do you have any pics?
He could be reacting to you not really looking like yourself. I think it’s the worst when people don’t look like themselves on their wedding day. Maybe you could try a more glammed up version of your everyday hair (again – pics would help) and he’d like it better.
My Fiance hates the Snooki poof/fauxhawk hair – I had a pic on my facebook with it and he pointed at it and goes “I hate that hairstyle – you shouldn’t do it” 🙂 Silly boys.
Post # 9
whatever you choose, pick something that looks like “you” (your style) and that you are totally comfortable in. On your wedding day, all dressed up, you will look the most beautiful if you feel confident!
Don’t let his shock at seeing you all done up, get your down!
Post # 10
find some middle ground. if you wear your hair down everyday, and would like an elaborate up-do for the wedding, do something half up and half down. Also, consider the type of wedding, make sure your hair matches your event