Post # 1
lots of rsvps yes’s are calling saying they are now NO’S . i have changed the table arrangements 10 times in the last three days. i am sick of doing it. some of the people who changed their rsvps make me a little sad. i have i think one whole table not coming. and then few seats at other tables that will be empty..
Post # 3
Ugh people are so rude! Sorry this is happening to you. With the wedding this close you don’t need the extra stress. To look on the bright side, at least they gave you notice instead of just not showing up. I would talk to you caterer and let them know and hopefully they can adjust your price accordingly.
I am nervous this is going to happen to me, as FI’s parents insisted on inviting very extended parts of the family that live out of state and we neeeever see (seriously I’ve been with Fiance for three years and I’ve never most most of them). Unfortunately though its out of your control. Just be extra happy for all the people who are coming.
Post # 4
Your wedding will be stunning. It will be perfect. It will be one of your favorite days of your life. I’m a wedding photographer and I got married almost two years ago, and I can honestly say I have seen it all. Outdoor wedding when a hurricane swept through, bride whose dad decided not to walk her down the aisle on the morning of her wedding, you name it! BUT each of my brides were so excited to be marrying their fiance. And regardless of the craziness that ensued…their wedding days were perfect.
My advice (and I tell this to all of my brides!) grab your fiance and spend some time with him. Get a cup of coffee. Go on a walk. Something. I know time is probably not too available at present…but take a minute and make space to have a few uninterrupted minutes with him. With your phone’s off and no wedding talk allowed! 🙂 Congrats ahead of time on what will be the best day of your life!
Post # 5
Aww, I’m so sorry! Your wedding will be fantastic, even without those few guests, because you get to marry the love of your life!
Post # 6
@Memoirsofagirl: beautifully written & great advice.