(Closed) Wedding Decisions You Don’t Care About

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
2440 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had a few things like that.  Invitations were definately one, I really didn’t care as long as people get the info.  Bridesmaids dresses were another one.  I know that’s a big one that people usually care a ton about but I picked them in a day, no research ahead, and changed the color while at the store because it looked better on my girls. I guess with that one, it wasn’t necessarily that I didn’t care as much as I wasn’t that picky and it wasn’t a huge thing as long as the dresses fit with the overall vibe of the wedding and the girls look good (and don’t have to spend a fortune).  The last one is probably favors.  I didn’t even want to bother doing them, my mom said they were a must, so I put her in charge.  Gave her the money and told her to go with whatever she feels like.

Post # 5
3316 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I didn’t even care about my own dress, much less my MOH’s.  I was originally planning just to wear a dress I already owned.  The only reason I changed my mind was because NotFroofy wanted a wedding dress, and I figured my dress should complement hers.

I was also a lot less concerned about photography than most of the brides I’ve seen.  I wanted some nice photos of the ceremony.  But I had no need for professional photos of either of our receptions, much less photos all over town during the cocktail hour or day after photos.

Post # 6
1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses and flowers. I’m sure there are more, but those are the ones at the top of my list.

Post # 7
4485 posts
Honey bee

Anything we don’t care about, we are nixing. There is no sense in having anything that you don’t care about just to keep with tradition.

That said, we are planning to skip:

Limo (both events in one venue)

Introductions by the dj – everyone in attendance already knows us or else they aren’t invited. Plus they are unheard of at weddings we have attended. No MC either since guests know what is going on as it happens with no issues.

Bubbles/rice, etc

Unity candle (and other alternatives) – the wedding itself is about unity so a mini ceremony is not necessary for us

I’m sure there are others but they escape me at the moment.


Post # 8
7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i was a bit the opposite, there were plenty of things i was sure i would not care about and then i ended up obsessing over – like centerpieces and Bridesmaid or Best Man flowers.   I didnt really care about my bouquet though, i was happy with what the resort gave me, i also didn’t care about Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses other than that they be the same color

Post # 9
3261 posts
Sugar bee

I’m the same as you I don’t care about the invitations.

Post # 10
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I didn’t care to much about the cake. It’s getting cut up anyways so why do I need a super fancy one?

Post # 11
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Flowers – They’re going to die. Just give me something pretty.

Post # 13
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I couldn’t care less about registries, wedding programs, escort cards, limos or whether or not there are children present.

Post # 14
6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Save-The-Date Cards were something I did not care about or care to do. So we didn’t do them. Through word of mouth/emails everyone who needed to make plans ahead of time was able to do so.

I gotta say…the rest of the details I care about a lot! (poor FI) haha.


Post # 15
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012


I’m getting married on the beach and having an on beach reception and the quote for thecenterpieces I like was as MUCH AS THE WHOLE EVENT! $4000 for flowers for 4 tables?!?!?!?!


I’m so over centerpieces. They’ll just block the view of the loveley ocean anyway. That and favors. I’m just going to sees candies and picking up some truffles. There…favor done 🙂

Post # 16
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Cake ! That’s another thing. I hate cake and Fiance loves pumpkin bread with a crazy firey passion. We might just have a dessert area with pumpkin break and cheesecake (My favorite) or have cupcakes for guests and some pumpkin beak and cheesecake for us! ^_^


But no cake. ick.

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