(Closed) Wedding D.J. help

posted 11 years ago in Music
Post # 3
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

What is it w/ DJs? Ours was, by far, the most "challenging" and annoying vendor we had.  Which is really to say, the only one who irked me.  I’d tell them the next time they call, "Look, we have your info, and right now I’m interested, but I’m not appreciating being called all the time.  I’ll call you when I’m ready." Be firm.

If they are highly recommended, it probably won’t kill you to hire them, as long as you feel confident in their ability to execute when it comes to the big day. The one we used was highly recommended, and we’d been to weddings/events that he’d done. And in the end, despite his lack of organization and annoying-ness, the guys who actually came to DJ were very pleasant and we had a great time.

I think maybe they are pushy b/c there’s more competition, and these days it’s so common for people to DIY the music too. Word of mouth is the best way to go, I’ve found.

Good luck! 

Post # 4
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

we found our dj because he was on the preferred vendors list at our venue.  Actually, most of our vendors were.  but our dj relied on word of mouth to get work rather than ads, harrassment, etc.  not to say that they won’t be good dj’s….I just don’t like or trust people who seem to work too hard to get business.  if they are good, they shouldn’t need to.

Post # 5
111 posts
Blushing bee

sorry but if that happened to me, i wouldn’t be using their services. there are plenty of other popular djs out there who can do the job and i want to go to one who hasnt annoyed or bothered me and one i feel comfortable with. nothing wrong with trying to get business, but if it bothered me, i would just choose another DJ.

Post # 6
109 posts
Blushing bee

All I know is that you need to give you DJ a playlist — they go nuts with all the cheesy 1970s disco songs and it is just not my favorite thing or how I want to remember my wedding. Any DJ I get will have a strict DO NOT PLAY list — I want the music to be as memorable as everything else.

Post # 7
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Hi I am new to the Bee boards! We recently booked our DJ, and found her through recs from friends. My fiance and I had a face-to-face meeting with her and her tech guy and discussed logistics, payment, song selection, etc. We are definitely comfortable with her…she really listened and understood us and the type of music we’d like to be played. She has a great reputation for reading the crowd as well. We are def. giving her MUST PLAY and DO NOT PLAY lists! Hope that helps…good luck!

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