Wedding dress dilemma

posted 11 months ago in Dress
Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

No! Wear what you want. It was not intentional and if she is cool with it then wear it and enjoy it!

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

If you search through these boards many, many people end up picking the same dress. If you love the dress I wouldn’t change it! I highly doubt the six guests at your wedding will notice that you two picked the same dress. If you’re really that worried about it you can always add a belt or do a different type of veil than she did.

Post # 4
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Worker bee

No one who isn’t wedding planning themselves even know wedding dress designers. No one will notice or care

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

there is no problem at all with wearing the same dress that someone else wore. Don’t feel bad. I agree that those 6 people will probably not notice, but even if they do, it doesn’t matter. Don’t give it a second thought. It’s totally fine. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

melody724 :  I agree with the above posters that you can wear what you want! Especially as she has said she doesn’t mind.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

No one will even notice. How you style the Dress can change it too. You’ll be fine.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

Honestly, no one cares about the dress as much as the bride does. I highly doubt anyone would even notice. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I guarantee you nobody will notice — unless you two are twins, it won’t look the same on you as it did on her!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

People bring themsleves to their bridal “look” so you will look quite different from the other bride who wore your dress. If you dddn’t noticeit was the same dress she wore then I very much doubt that anyoneelse will make the same connection.  Just relax and enjoy your dress.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

The only person that will even notice will be the former bride!! You should wear it!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

melody724 :  you don’t need to feel bad about falling in love with a dress a friend wore. HOWEVER…it sounds like this is not the first time you’ve fallen in love with a dress, but the fourth? girl, maybe you need to just wear what you bought and stop trying on new dresses.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Seriously don’t even give it any more thought… most ppl don’t even notice details at all! Especially after two years.  I mean YOU didn’t remember what her dressed looked like, why would your other friends? It totally ok. No worries!

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