(Closed) Wedding Fears – let’s get them out there

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3525 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I was afraid that all our pictures would suck (I’m not photogenic at all, either), but they were awesome. Have faith in your photographers! 😉

Post # 4
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

1. My dress will somehow fall down and I will end up flashing EVERYONE I KNOW!!

2. My eyes will be closed in all the pictures.

3. My daughter will somehow step on my dress and tear it (or maybe she’s the reason it falls down?)

4. That I wrote the wrong date on the invitation and no one shows up!

Post # 5
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m with you.. falling .. that’s huge.  OR it being boring and my brothers leaving early and announcing that they are leaving because IT SUCKS.

there’s many … many more.  I haven’t ever seen any real bad things at weddings in person … so i’m sure it’ll be fine.

Post # 6
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

@HisIrishPrincess: “This wedding sucks! I’m out of here.” Stomp Stomp Stomp.

You poor thing. That would scare me too!

Post # 7
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5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My biggest fear is whether everyone will fit comfortably inside my mom’s house if it rains.  I’m TERRIFIED of everyone on the guest list attending, it raining, all of us squished like sardines inside the house, and everyone forever after talking about how awful my wedding was. (We can’t have a tent because of the way their backyard slopes.)

Far below that fear are my two others: that our pictures will suck, and that people will be bored.

Post # 8
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

@SoontobeMrsA: HEHE those made me laugh…. but they will be added to my list of horrors … flashing the guests … maybe i can tie that into falling .. then flashing … oh and then can i be flashing the priest too?

Post # 9
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

@HisIrishPrincess: Being topless is my biggest fear in life and I’m not really sure why! I have nightmares that I show up to work/my daughter’s school/the wedding with nothing on above my waist.

Post # 10
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1890 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My biggest wedding fears:

-It rains, and we don’t get to have the beautiful outdoor wedding I want

-FMIL/FFIL embarass me/us really bad

-Traffic is awful and people don’t make it on time (we’re getting married on a Friday evening, so this is a very real possibility)

-I fall.  I’m going to practice a LOT wearing my 4″ heels so that this doesn’t happen!

Post # 11
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2793 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

RAIN!

Farmer’s Almanac says it’s going to. Heh. Yell

Post # 12
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6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I had a super-realistic dream the other night about everything wedding-related that I’m afraid of happening. Some of them were really stupid, so I won’t include them, lol.

  • We just forget to book an officiant, so there’s no one to marry us.
  • Our photographer shows up late, so we don’t get any good photos (we’re going to do a first-look).
  • I get sick (like, stomach ejecting contents sick), at the aisle, which is really possible because I have a very weak stomach that’s only made worse by nerves.
  • We trip all over each other on the first dance and people laugh at us.
  • Someone says something horribly inappropriate during the toasts
  • Falling out of my dress

Some of these still aren’t quite rational, but I’m still scared of them!

Post # 13
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6351 posts
Bee Keeper

Fi’s biggest wedding fear is me getting drunk at the reception lol. By my second glass of wine, I tend to be running around hugging everyone. And I knock things over (hello red wine on my white dress!).

Post # 14
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32 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

1.  That I’ll look terrible in all the photographs.  Or that my photographers won’t make it.

2.  That I’ll gain a hideous amount of weight between now and then and not fit into my dress.

3.  That it will be really really really hot and our clear top tent will turn into a greenhouse.

4.  That the police will make us turn off the music at like 9pm.

Post # 15
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1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

1. My videographer wont show up 

2. I wont have any of my Bridesmaids follow through with ordering their dresses

3. My dad wont really pay off my dress or wedding venue

4. My cake will suck

5. We wont have a DJ

6. FI’s brother will tell everyone how much the family doesnt like me in his Bridesmaid or Best Man speech.

Post # 16
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3758 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I have a few fears about the wedding, they include but are not limited to:

1. A certain person finds out and shows up

2. can’t find THE dress on time

3. Bad pictures

4. Out of state family cannot make it

5. Something happens to the cake (very common problem with my family for some reason)

 

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