Wedding hate

posted 1 month ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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2160 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

teamroro :  I totally agree! What kind of shit stirrer is reporting these comments back to the OP?

Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK

MiaSuperstar :  I agree with you to an extent (though I still don’t get the comment about being obssessed with the groom and wonder if something was lost in translation). I’ve definitely judged a couple for putting their vision of the dream wedding over the comfort of their guests. I only spoke about it with trusted people though and would be extremely shocked if they thought to tell the bride. It seems very high school. 

 

Post # 34
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well your dresses are beautiful and you look stunning…as does your background. Just ignore them. What you spent is none of their business.

Post # 35
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Your dresses are gorgeous! Ignore the haters! 

Post # 36
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Busy bee

Everything about your photos are beautiful! Your dress, makeup, the flowers, venue, lighting, everyythinggg. I would LOVE to attend a wedding like this. Congratulations on your marriage and dont give those grapevine comments a second thought. They were definitely overwhelmed/comparing it to their own. 🙂

 

By The Way did you take those photos before, during, or after the wedding?

Post # 37
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

 Meh. Just send them some pics of your wedding with hashtag #WEDDINGSOEXTRA💗

Post # 38
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Helper bee

throwawaybride :  

1. Your wedding looks EXTRA beautiful!

2. You obviously cared a lot about how you looked on your wedding day….and it paid off because you look friggen incredible!

3. You’re obsessed with your husband…THANK THE LAWD because you just committed to spending your life with him!

Fuck the haters, girl! And congratulations to a beautiful wedding, the love you have for your husband and being blessed with good genes! <3

Post # 39
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

throwawaybride :  After seeing the pics I think it’s clear that they’re jealous. You both look amazing and so does that venue.

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

Wow bee 😍 you are stunning, and everything about your venue is pure magic! I stand by my original statement. These “friends” were jealous AF. 

Thank you for sharing. 

Post # 41
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Bumble bee

You look absolutely beautiful as does your husband and venue, those comments were down to jealousy and nothing more.

Also, I disagree with a previous poster that everyone talks sh*t at weddings and it’s normal. Objective valid criticisms are normal like “There weren’t enough seats”, “the venue was too cold”, “the food was bad” etc. Saying someone is obsessed with their husband and that they’ve never know a bride care so much about how she looks is just plain b*tchy. 

Ive been to weddings where certain things I haven’t enjoyed and yes I have commented to my family or partner etc privately about it, but I’ve never tore into the couple or made personal digs about them and said they’ve wasted money. 

Post # 42
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Sugar bee

I am jealous I didn’t get to attend. It looks amazing, and you look gorgeous! Ignore the haters.

Post # 43
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I have been to several Indian weddings and they have all been “extra.” And they have been the absolute BEST weddings and parties ever! I absolutely adore the clothing and the jewelry, the food, the music, everything. Many people – myself included – would have loved to have a wedding like that, so I don’t know what could make someone say negative things about it. I don’t normally jump right to jealousy when people are rude, but in this case I cannot imagine what else it could be.

You look absolutely gorgeous and your Dh looks strikingly handsome. And while their attitude stinks, at least you know who is a real friend and who not to trust now. 

Post # 44
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2020

Because they are jealous! Girls honestly suck. Haha. brush it off and don’t let it get to you. But knowing if that happened to me… I would say something cause I don’t tolerate fake haters. If these people are close to you, I would def rethink about if you want to be around people like that. If they are saying this to your face, what do you think they are saying behind your back?! Jealousy is such a toxic quality to have. Never trust a jelly!!! And you look gorgeous by the way 🙂 I can only imagine how awesome your wedding was!

Post # 45
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

throwawaybride :  Ridiculous…post your favorite pictures, we will give you our opinions 😉 

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