(Closed) Wedding ideas clashing with mom and MOH already!…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3039 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Stop it now. Tell them how you feel and that they have to accept it, or tune them out. I was vague in the beginning of my wedding planning and my dad sort of just went along and decided a lot of things. All because he cares about me, but he did it out of what he think is best – not what I think is best. Now, I might be able to reverse some of his decisions, but it’s time consuming and stressful. Don’t do that, take control of your wedding. If they want to plan a party, have them host one for themselves!

Post # 4
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It seems like you have a strong sense of self and a good idea about what you like and what is you, which is wonderful! As you said, remember it is only the first month of planning! While the general idea of what you envision for your wedding surely won’t change, what you see and hear and want to do will, so try to keep somewhat of an open mind! I too have a very strong sense of what I like, but when I went through the planning process, especially in the beginning, my vision often shifted and changed. There is SO much inspiration out there! So, don’t get caught up too much in your mother or Maid/Matron of Honor wedding ideas but at least hear what they have to say and try to be sweet and polite since they love you and you love them! And most of all, remember to share your ideas with them! Your excitement is sure to get them excited along with you.

Good luck!

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