(Closed) Wedding in a week and depressed about weight…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 33
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276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@lawbride88

 

I agree with village_skeptic, I think it would be really helpful for you to look into therapy as soon as possible.  I am biased (I am a therapist) but I do think that between the eating disorder history, wedding pressure, and any anticipatory anxiety you may have about TTC, you would really benefit from some additional support.  A good therapist can help you learn how to challenge and hopefully even turn off that negative voice in the back of your mind and reduce your risk of an ED relapse.  Best of luck, and I hope you will consider it.

Post # 34
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493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@lawbride88:  I’m sure you will look gorgeous! The most important thing is that you are healthy!

I always think I look fat in photos, but then I will look back on them 6 months later or a year later and be soo confused as to why I was so insecure. I hate the way our minds gets about weight loss, especially when it comes to weddings. I’m sure you will look very beautiful. What I always do when I feel bad about my weight is look up celebrities that weigh about the same that I do or have similar body (issues) and try to turn it around!

For instance you weigh around 115, right?

 So does Zoe! She pulls it off beautifully.

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