(Closed) Wedding in a week and my job is driving me crazy!! *long*

posted 6 years ago in Money
Post # 3
Member
812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

One thing you need to not do is let any of them see how upset they make you. Be strong! Don’t ever cry in front of the people you work with unless you’re mourning the loss of a loved or just heard/read something really sad. It gives them a sense of power over you. 

Also, I doubt you need “help”, but if you’re this stressed out right now, it would not hurt to ask your doctor for a prescription for a low dosage anti anxiety pill. I take Klonipin for anxiety during stressful times and it really does help. And it doesn’t make me sleepy or emotional like some of the others in the same drug family.

Post # 4
Member
914 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry 🙁 What a bunch of buttholes. Try to not think about them and enjoy your wedding. But as soon as you get back start looking for another job. I just left my job of 7 years because I got so tired of the bullshit people and the ridiculous office politics.

Post # 5
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171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Whoa that sounds horrible. I know that working at a place where things are unfair its hard to go to work on a daily basis unhappy. Your coworkers have some nerve being such jerks to you. I don’t know how this passes through your workplace. Just hang in there and ignore the comments of your unsupportive coworkers. Have you applied/ looked at other places to work at? I used to apply to diff companies, given it takes time til you get called for a job etc. Truth is if you’re unhappy, apply elsewhere and wait for interviews and a job confirmation before quitting. I’ve never really had a backup if I was to quit or lose a job so I would stick to a job, crappy or not, til i get hired elsewhere. 

Also, what is your boss doing to fix it? 

Post # 8
Member
812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@MoissyFanatic:  

 

The job market sucks right now. If you don’t have insurance you can go to your county health dept and they will assess you and give you prescriptions on a sliding scale basis. I’ve had to work hard to keep my emotions under control. I work in an office where I am only one of five americans and it’s exactly what you would call a hostile work environment. We are treated very substandard and they don’t care.

So…I’ll be damned if I’m ever going to let one of those jackasses upset me and make me cry in front of them. Practice makes perfect. I’ve learned to keep my cool and speak in a calm but forceful voice that either makes them feel stupid or intimidated enough to go sit their ass back down. 

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