(Closed) Wedding Invitation – Do we have to invite them too?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Do we invite them too?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    9 %
    No : (10 votes)
    91 %
  • Post # 3
    291 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    They do not need to feel that they must invite these people because they were invited.  It was very gracious of the other family to invite them, however it’s not necessarily a reciprical event. 

    Post # 4
    2233 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No invite, and maybe a small gift. Depends on their relationship with the couple, I would normally not send a gift if I were unable to attend a wedding unless it was a very close friend. 


    Post # 5
    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I wouldn’t add them to the invite list…and your parents should be able to get away with just sending a nice card. 

    Post # 6
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I don’t think you need to invite them. In regards to the gifts, I always give a gift when I am invited even if I decide not to attend.

    Post # 7
    708 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I am of the opinion that you should absolutely send a gift if you were invited – attending or not

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