(Closed) Wedding invitations confusion.

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Well it would be more rude not to send invitations at all, I would send them now.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

save the dates are not required, they are basically only sent so people can arrange plans, so they are not really needed if you are pretty sure his family won’t even be able to come. i do think you should send invitations though, it would be rude if you didn’t. i would send them as soon as you can.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I had never heard of STD’s before Weddingbee, and I didn’t send them.  They are absolutely not required, but you should send invitations, even if it is just as a courtesy. 

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think you’re fine.  I am assuming that the close 20 people you are inviting have known about the Peru wedding anyways.  My friend had two weddings, one in the US and one in Spain.  My plane tickets were purchased long before the invite (no STD!) came for Spain b/c I knew I was going no matter what.  Its polite to invite people, even if you know they can’t come…

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would definitely send the invites. I’m sure many of them already know about the plans for your wedding to be in Peru, so it won’t be a big surprise.

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