Wedding invite SOS

posted 2 years ago in Paper
Post # 2
8293 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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mountain_bride2019 :  Have you tried looking on Etsy. I got so pissed off with the likes of Vista Print etc that I looked there and found the most beautiful suite and the store owner was so helpful and it was so friggin’ easy!!! 

Post # 5
478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2019 - Southampton, UK

I used Basic Invite, and I loved them. They offer so many color choices and I found the editing software easy. They didn’t have inner envelopes, but they have pockets, which serve the same purpose and are really cute.

Post # 6
2051 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

Doing online email invitations was the best thing I ever did.  We used greenenvelope. The first photo is the one we used, and the second one is another one i loved. They have every style and they are gorgeous. 


Here is what I loved about doing them online. 


  • It costs $100.00 for 150 invitations emailed. 
  • It emails me when someone opens the invite when they first get it in their inbox
  • It emails me when they RSVP
  • It tracks the invites by who RSVP’d, by who is still pending, by who hasn’t opened theirs yet etc. 
  • I can put all the details into the invitation about where, when, a FAQ section, even our registry and hotel block info. EVERYTHING. 
  • I can email some guests, or all guests from the site if I have additional updates. 
  • I didn’t need a wedding website because it was all right there for me already. 
  • I got an amazing amount of RSVP’s because people don’t have to mail it back in. 
  • I don’t have to worry about getting lost in the mail, paying for stamps, addressing envelopes etc. 
  • Plus ones are customizable for each invite. 
  • Once I was ready to send the invites, everyone got them the day I hit send. 
  • Reminding people to RSVP is so easy i just have to click a button. 
  • All feedback from guests was they loved it via email rather than in the mail. 

Just something to consider. I am so glad we did it this way. The results are better, faster, super accurate, and when we had to last minute add people to the guest list and send them an invite i literally was able to pull it up on my phone, add their email address and click send in under a minute. My coworker sent out paper invites and i hear from her every day about how stressful it is, she wishes she did email invites. 

Post # 7
4874 posts
Honey bee

Cause in the Venn diagram of the sorts of folks who are doing fully formal traditional etiquette invitation suites for formal weddings and people budget shopping on shutterfly the overlap is probably pretty small.  Most people I know doing the former generally go to stores/sites specializing in wedding stationery rather than an all-purpose shop.  Usually the trade off for all-purpose discount sites is fewer extras and a lower level of formality.

Post # 9
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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mountain_bride2019 :  I found a shop called not on the high street, super easy to work with and although they are in the UK and I’m in the US, I still got them fairly quickly. You basically fill out the info, they send you a proof and you make changes as necessary

Post # 10
137 posts
Blushing bee

I used Minted and loved our invites 🙂 


Post # 11
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

I also got mine on Etsy. They were beautiful, foil printed invitations for similar prices to the online shops. One of the cards did come in a different color so that had to be fixed, but otherwise they were great. We didn’t do inner envelopes, it just wasnt worth the hassle to us. So we just addressed everyone on the front of the envelope. For example ” Mr. and Mrs. John Doe, Julia, Jane, Jack”. TBH we’ve been invited to some formal weddings lately and not one has provided an inner envelope. 

Post # 12
195 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016 - Bell Tower on 34th

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mountain_bride2019 :  I used magnetstreet and LOVED mine, great price too!  Would highly recommend and the time from ordering to arrival at my door was so short!

Post # 13
988 posts
Busy bee

The most formal of the online megastores is Minted. We used Minted and had beautiful formal letterpressed invitations for our black tie wedding. BUT we still did not have an inner envelope (though I think they offer them). If you want formal invites you typically have to go a locally owned shop

Post # 14
9596 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i didn’t do inner envelopes for my formal wedding. just named everyone on the only envelope.

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