Post # 46

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Busy bee
It looks beautiful on you. I know you said that you tried on a belt, but liked it better without. Maybe try on a belt again. Just something simple with a little sparkle. It will add just a little something extra and bring a whole new wow factor.
Post # 47

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Blushing bee
You look gorgeous in this dress, there’s nothing wrong with it or you. That said, you have body image issues and no dress would magically make it go away, you have to work on this because you’re hurting yourself and you don’t deserve that!
Post # 48

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Busy bee
What fat are you talking about?! I see zero stomach bulge, a CREASE in your armpit, and a little back fat. Are they able to let that out a tad? Your veil covers it, too. You look great, and from what I see the only “issue” is the back fat-which isn’t really fat, it’s more like the dress is just too tight right there!!
Post # 49

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Newbee
holy crap that dress looks amazing on you…. seriously though. i wish i looked half that good in anything i wear? stomach buldge? LOL some see mine and youll feel much better about yourself
Post # 50

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Bumble bee
- Wedding: May 2017 - Ocean front
You look gorgeous….. absolutely stunning! :+)
Post # 51

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Newbee
You look absolutely stunning! Seriously.
Post # 52

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Sugar bee
You were killing it then, you’re especially killing it now. That dress is G O R G E O U S!!
Post # 53

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Helper bee
- Wedding: February 2018 - Emerald at Queensridge
OMG! You are a bombshell! That dress was made for you!
Post # 54

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Sugar Beekeeper
iscnrr1331 :
I honestly believe you may a have a touch of – what do they call it – ‘body dysmorphia’? Because you look damn near perfect and have a body most women would love to have. Really . Though you called your post hating your dress, most of what you have said is about your body. I am sorry you are not happy with is because well, what can I say, both you and the dress look beautiful and glamourous.
Please don’t be tempted to put blingy/ beaded/ sparkly belts and the like on it , its lines and ruching are perfection in themselves . Trust the people who love you – plus a bunch of internet well wishers!
Post # 55

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Worker bee
elderbee : Thank you so much, this was a perfectly written response and exactly what I needed to hear. Over the past day I’ve had time to take a step back and realize I’ve been putting way too much pressure on myself to look a certain way, when in reality I should be happy with the way I look now! Upon taking some time to reflect, I am now looking at the picture of myself in the dress and realizing it does look amazing and I don’t need to lose those extra 7 pounds I had in my mind to reach the “ideal weight” because I already look great. I guess sometimes we all have those moments of bridezilla!!
Post # 56

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Worker bee
Holy moly girl you look AMAZING and that dress is stunning!!!!
Post # 57

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Newbee
It’s a really important day and if your intuition says it’s not the “one” don’t wear it,buy a new one and sell that one.
Post # 58

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Sugar Beekeeper
iscnrr1331 :
How nice of you to reply with thanks and I am so glad if I helped.
And hey, not a bridezilla moment , but just one of of anxiety and self-deprecation. Have a lovely lovely day OP and let us have some recap photos. I think your soon-to-be husband will be utterly blown away and feel like he has the most beautiful bride . So no last minute ‘gilding the lily’, all is just perfect as it is.
Post # 59

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Newbee
Lot of people are their own worst critic. You look stunning!!! I’m sure your soon to be husband will love you in it. 🙂 Enjoy your special day in your lovely dress as a beautiful bride!
Post # 60

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Worker bee
Your body is seriously amazing.. you look so good in it! Stop worrying about your imperfections, you are only bringing yourself down and the only person who can see them it you!