(Closed) Wedding is 2 months away and he drops a bomb on me

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I feel for you. This seems so serious.I don’t really want to give you advice but maybe just some things to think about?

I will say that I think you should use your good judgement. Follow your heart but use your head. What do you want to do?

One thing that stands out to me is that you said you are fiery and passionate. One problem is that your relationship doesn’t seem to have any fire or passion.

Opposites don’t always attract when it comes to relationships.

I also would have to question if it’s a good idea to have children with someone who is at risk of hurting themselves.

Another thing to consider is that divorce can be much more costly than a wedding.It sounds like you two are really not on the same page on a lot of issues. 2 people wanting kids is really not a good reason to marry imo.

I would not go solely on what your friends say, but I don’t understand why you would want to go into a marriage like this. No sex, possible suicide risk, no goals or motivation. It doesn’t seem to match up with you….and you are talking about committing to someone for life.


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