(Closed) Wedding is in 6 Days and…

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You need to have your Fiance talk to him right away. This is unacceptable behavior for a best man

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@armychica06:  have you fi talk to him or take him there directly.  is there a financial situation that is perhaps holding him back?  either way, let him know that if he doesn’t get fitted by tuesday, he’s out.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Maybe it’s time to be dramatic. Tell him if he doesn’t go right away then he will not be in the wedding. If he cares about his relationship with your Fiance then it should be important enough to get done. Otherwise, maybe ask another groomsmen that is more responsible to step in as best man. He is not being a very good best man or cousin for that matter if he is acting so childish as to not get fitted because he knows how much it is aggravating you (which I’m assuming is the situation).

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I’d be talking to my Fiance and asking him what we’re going to do about this, as in, at what point will he (your FI) ask him to bow out.  Conversely, Fiance could tell him that if he doesn’t have the suit by the day before, to not bother coming to the rehearsal.

To me, it’s not about what he wears for the wedding (i.e. if he looks different). It’s about the fact he clearly cares so little that he won’t spare an hour to get this done, never mind leaving you both hanging the week before the wedding.

Sorry you’re going through that. I imagine the week before the wedding is stressful enough without having to deal with BS from someone who is supposed to be there to support you.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Today.  One of my husband’s GMs waited until a week out and finally went after a threat that if he didn’t have the tux, he wouldn’t be in the wedding.  Good luck!

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