(Closed) Wedding is in 9 days and I don’t feel excited.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6244 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Maybe when you can finally say “I’m getting married tomorrow!!” you will feel the excitement and anticipation? 

Post # 4
29 posts
  • Wedding: December 2011

@loveknows: Date twin! 

I was just talking about this with a friend of mine.  I don’t feel excited, I just feel ANXIOUS.  Thinking about it makes me want to throw up.  I’ve even started regretting the whole thing and wishing we had just gone to the courthouse instead.  I know that’s terrible but just knowing that everyone will be looking at me fills me with dread.  Ugh, now I feel nauseated again.


Post # 5
1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Perhaps you are too stressed to be excited? I’m sure that’s how I will be! I am feeling numb just with all the wedding planning. It’s not as fun as I thought it would be and nothing ever seems to live up to my high expectations.

Try to relax and take it all in. I’m sure it will hit you the day of and you will feel nothing but happiness. Maybe have a date night with your Fiance this week or spend some alone/private time with him to rekindle the romance.

Enjoy your wedding and good luck!! 🙂

Post # 6
3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Are you not excited to be married or are you not excited for the wedding? What kind of details do you have let, is there any way you can wrap them up quickly or pass them on to others so you are able to take a couple of days to relaxe?

Post # 9
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

This usually happens to me when there’s something big coming up, I get numb rather than excited, wait till you put your dress on. =)

Post # 10
1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I was just e-mailing a friend about this.  I have all of the details planned and ready but it is the PEOPLE that are driving me batty.  After the wedding, I think I am going to need a break from Fiance friggin’ family.

I assume the party will be fun, but boy oh boy, more days than not I wish we had eloped.

Post # 11
304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

awww….at least your now days off…im so frustrated at this point….


BEST of luck…

Post # 12
21 posts
  • Wedding: March 2012

My sister went through the same thing. It is such a public affair no wonder you feel numb!!! You will be fine xx

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