(Closed) Wedding is over and honeymoon didnt happen…vent

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sorry all these shitty things happened at/around your wedding.  But remember, you and your husband are married now and that’s what the wedding is all about.

Will you get to take a honeymoon on a later date?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

First of all, you sister is a bitch. How dare she ruin your day with her jealous rants! And second of all, do not stress. I had so many issues at my wedding and things go wrong and I cried for weeks! But then I got my pictures… and they didn’t show a single thing that had gone wrong. It helped me to remember all the good. Wait until you get your pictures, I think you will feel better. And remember, it is about you and your husband:)

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

GEEZ, is your sister 12?? what a jealous brat – i would have kicked her ass outta there. i’m so sorry that she decided to be a siszilla… try to focus on the good and start planning when you’ll reschedule your HM!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Ka393:I heard this when I was crying for the millionth time on my wedding day:

The worse the wedding, the better the marriage.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow, two words for your sister: f**k her.  Sorry.. she’s got some serious issues or insecurities or something to just show up and bad mouth everything about your apt and wedding and whatever other smack she’s talking.  Karma’s a bitch… let’s just see how things roll when her wedding comes around.  Dont worry about your dress and stuff, photoshop baby!  And this may sound cliche, but its not about how many photos he took, but the quality.  Even if you have just 1 or two of those fun/posed shots (I’m assuming thats what you mean by not too many pics of you and your husband), then that’s all you need!!!  We got a lot of posted/us shots, but I only love like 1 or 2, which will be printed and displayed, then a a few ok fillers for the albums.  All the other ones of jsut us, I dont care for, wont go into my album, wont be printed.

Sorry about your hm!!  Will you be able to go later?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry your wedding day didn’t turn out as you planned. Sorry your sister wasn’t supportive. However, as someone who thought and re-thought a lot of stuff that happened on my day, I can honestly tell you that after a bit, those bad thought will start fading away. Also, per your honeymoon, you can reschedule right? Hope you got travel insurance for hurricanes etc. Congrats on your weddding day/marriage. Hope to see pictures soon!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so sorry you didnt have only positive folks around you on your big day.  Your sister sounds incredibly selfish.  I agree that the pictures will help you focus on the good of the day.  It’ll help you remember the memories that are clouded by the negative.

Hopefully you can re-schedule the honeymoon for another time. *hugs*

I hope other brides-to-be take these types of issues as a warning.  If someone is being a severe negative Nelly and ruining your day, tell them to F-Off early in the day before your entire day is crapped all over by them.  Just because someone is family does not mean they have free reign to abuse you.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Rain is good luck on your wedding day. 

Sisters suck (believe me I have 5 of them).  

And lots of people don’t remember anything about their wedding day. I have been told by my married friends that they don’t remember any of the details. It is just a big blur. So try to think about the good things like your hunny standing at the altar and that you have him for the rest of your life to snuggle with. 

Best wishes for a happy marriage! 

 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

WOW Sorry but what a selfish B!TCH your sister is!

I am so sorry and like one poster said Karma baby! I believe in this wholeheartedly.

I hope you can take your honeymoon soon so you can relax with your hubby and try to put this behind you. (((hugs)))

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Tswife4ever:  Agreed.  SOOO many things went wrong, down to my mom deciding to decorate her way at the last minute, while I was getting ready and wouldn’t see what she did until after I walked down the aisle.  My hair was great at my trial too and was a complete disaster day of- looked like I had just played a volleyball tournament- the pastor told my photog (on whom I spent most of our limited budget) that they were not allowed to come past the last chair in the aisle (uh, we were outdoors, not in a church), it was so freakin hot, my guests were sweating like crazy… the only thing I can say is that the moment when he and I saw each other is forever in my mind and he cried… yes!!!… my dress was amazing, and our photog is a genuis who made it all look good.

Your sister went crazy.  I hope it temporary.  If I were you, I’d attend her wedding and be completely well-behaved… take the high road.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@jjmomma : “the only thing I can say is that the moment when he and I saw each other is forever in my mind and he cried.” <


THAT! Hold onto THAT! Honestly, my wedding was a blur too. The whole time it felt so surreal and there was so much going on that it was hard to remember most of it, but there were a few AMAZING moments that made the entire day worth it.  No matter how many things went wrong, if you just have one moment like the one you described, that is a beautiful thing. Congratulations on your marriage!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Ka393: So Sorry all of this happened to you…..HUGS

 

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