- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My wedding was few days ago on Sept 9th. I seriously cant remember much of the day for some odd reason. It was raining a bit in the morning then it stopped and had periods of sun. It was good for some pictures and stuff but a lot went wrong..
First , my sister coming to the wedding. My sister and I had a fight last Oct and all of a sudden she just didnt want to do anything with me after she knew I was getting married a year sooner. I think it was jealousy but who knows the real reason. She wasn’t going to attend my wedding especially that its in a diffeerent state from where we live. She was overseas traveling with our cousin and decided to come back to the US because she was getting home sick and yet I thought she came back for my wedding or something.
She was so annoying and ruined my wedding day and few days before that. One day I had my family come over to our apartment to check it out and visit and I was happy to show them the apartment and have a good day with them. However, My parents and I went out to get something and came back and right when I walked in my sister jumps off the couch and starts talking about her wedding and how she wants some help financially for her wedding that she wants it to be in AUGUST. My dad was a bit shocked because its only two days before my wedding and she is talking about that and then my dad been helping us with the wedding and he asked her to delay it because of finances. She flipped and asked him to help them and that they wont change the date.
Later that day she kept making phone calls to photographers and venues. We decided to go to the mall because she needed a dress for the wedding , and she was dragging everyone with her. I was getting stressed out needing my moms help with some last minute things to get for the wedding.
My little sister told me that night that she was talking crap about my apartment and how her apartment will be better than mine and how her wedding will be this and that.
On my weddng day while we are getting ready (hair and makeup) and it started raining a bit , she looked out and she was like ” oh wow its raining” and laughs a bit. The make up lady tried to calm me and told me that it better rain now than later for pictures. I was like why in the world would anyone say something like that.
Later that day when the photographer came and videographer taking pictures , she was sitting there talking about how she doesnt like waht the photographer doing and how her photographer will do this and that and how her wedding will be ON MY WEDDIGN DAY!!!!
Later that day , at my reception…my family asks her for some ODD DAMN REASON to sing a song for us. I didnt want that…she took the mic and started walking across the dance floor singing horribly a song for “us” as if she cares.
Besides my sister , my hair turned our horribly…for some reason , the lady did a good job on trial and then did sucky job on my hair on wedding day!
My dress got dirty from a car tire , black stuff on front which got cleaned before ceremony but still stained a bit!!! and my dress got dirty again from something on the top part of the dress, it was tiney but still!
The photogrpaher I felt like he didnt take enough pictures of me and my husband
Oh and our honeymoon to Puerto Rico got cancelled because of tropical storm Maria!!
I been crying everyday since the wedding and until today I just feel very down about everything and feel like my wedding was horrible!! I dont remember much of it and to top things , my mom is trying to understand why I am upset at my sister who ruined my day!! and she is the one who doesnt want to talk to me!!
ugh…sorry need to vent.