(Closed) Wedding less then a month away and it all just Kicked in !!! AAAAH!

posted 8 years ago in February 2011
Post # 3
3314 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It’s normal to have nightmares.  I know I did about both finding the right undergarment (let me tell you that NOW those dreams are HILARIOUS!  Then?  not so much) and my dress fitting me.  It’ll seem like everything is a bit crazy as you get closer to the wedding (maybe more then a bit in some cases), but as long as your man is there and you can get married, then the rest doesn’t really matter so much after all.  *hugs*  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
1330 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

breathe…it’ll be okay… just take everything one thing at a time…

btw, have you thought/heard of “Somos Novios” by Andrea Bocelli?  its so pretty and i think perfect for a first dance song ๐Ÿ™‚


Post # 7
1330 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@ihateweddings:  no problem ๐Ÿ™‚ i would check out the ones he does in duets, like the one he did with Katharine McPhee….there’s a version he did just himself where he sings one part in English and it isn’t the real translation of what he is saying, so it takes away from the song in my opinion…. but i hope you like it! ๐Ÿ™‚ here’s the link to the youtube video of the Katherine McPhee one…


Post # 8
661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Oh man, can I relate with you.  From the name to the post honey.  lol  I’m a little more than a month myself, so I’m sure things must be in overdrive for you being that its so close.  Not to mention, I’ve been having my own “panic moments” (multiple, of course, because they only seem to come in friggin waves) …. so again, I can onlly imagine what it will feel like within a months time.

So, first thing they tell us is to “breathe”.  Yeah, I’ve been doing that.  It kinda helps.  Another bee told me to grab some girls, take a night off from everything, open a bottle of wine, and relax.  Yeah – I’m taking that advice; but 86’ing the girls and only hanging with my mother.  Go figure.  lol  I would recommend the same?  I’m doing it this Saturday, so I’ll let ya know how that goes.

Nightmares?  All the time.  From my mothers “puppies A.K.A Marley from Marley & Me” chewing my wedding dress to shreds all the way to standing at the altar and finding out Fiance forgot the bands at home.  Next thing you know, he’s rushing down the isle in the middle of the ceremony to drive 30 minutes to get them.  Me?  Standing there looking at a very large group of confused, laughin people.  So … nightmares, its GOTTA be normal, right?  lol

I would start a chant, if I was you (and I will be you in a few weeks) lol  The chant will say “I am marrying my world and that’s what is more important.  I am marrying my world and thats what is more important.”  And I will say it, engrave it, and consider tattooing it to keep myself calm.  ๐Ÿ™‚ 

We’ll get through it.  It’ll be a beautiful day, and whatever happens on the day of, well, happens.  Its out of our control at that point, so you do the best to enjoy the day (which you won’t have to try hard, I’m sure of it).  In the meantime, we’ll continue to count our panic moments and laugh about it later??  Heh, or we always have our 1st anniversary to do it again, (our way).  lol 

Good luck!

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