(Closed) Wedding may be off/advise needed

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Why does he want to cancel? Is it because of the costs?
I think that you should definitely go through with it! Throwing away 10 thousand dollars would be so much money used toward nothing you know.
I hope things work out!  I would find the root of why he wants to cancel it and try to work through those issues.

Good Luck 🙂 

Post # 4
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1306 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would most definitley not cancel right now. FInd out why he wants to cancel and try to work things through. If you do decide to cancel, I would try to talk your venue into a smaller fee since the date is so far away. Hopefully they will work with you on it. Good luck!

Post # 6
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750 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Let me get this straight… you’ve been married a year and a half and you are planning a wedding celebration for November of this year. So it’s effectively a party to celebrate a marriage ceremony that has taken place some time ago, and you are already legally married.

Am I right so far? Your post was a little confusing.

Yes, if you are having a lot of arguments you need to work on your relationship. That’s never a good thing for anyone. But at this point unless you are seriously contemplating divorce, why cancel the party and lose $10,000 if you’re ALREADY MARRIED? That’s like canceling Christmas dinner with the family because you can’t agree on ham or turkey. You say he “doesn’t want to go through with this.” Go through with what? You’re ALREADY MARRIED. This is throwing a party. Yes, it’s a party to celebrate something important, and I don’t mean to beliettle that, but if your husband is having issues going through a PARTY, you need to have some serious talks and find out why.

Post # 7
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2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I think you should try to work through your issues while moving forward with the wedding. I don’t see how throwing half the money away at this point is going to help you. And if things do work out, won’t you want a wedding again anyways?

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