- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I got the ring and all i wanted was a small (no more than 10 people) backyard wedding at my FH parents house their backyard opens up to a pasture and has a rustic gate with an arch. My FH kept saying I want you to have the wedding you didn’t get before (I was married at 19 it did not work out and it was a rushed wedding as in 2 weeks to put it together). I don’t want to hurt his feelings because he wants this whole country bluegrass thing. I am what I would call a very traditional person I like simple and this wedding has turned into a monster. My parents are not involved and I’m doing 98% of it myself all but the food. I just want to runaway the belt is just part of it ,he hates veils and I really want one. FH also has turned this into a party more for him. Sorry about the rant but this is killing me I want my simple wedding but the invites are out and the guest list is over 200. What would you do? I also wanted to go to the beach for our honeymoon but seeing as my FH lived in Hawaii for almost 4 years he says NO!!!!! To sand.