(Closed) Wedding night

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: A sex ban before the wedding night
    Yes : (44 votes)
    30 %
    No : (86 votes)
    58 %
    Maybe : (18 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think it’s a good idea! Sometimes you’re just not in the mood, which I’d hate to risk on the wedding night. But if you haven’t done it in a while, you’ll definitely want to.

    Post # 4
    399 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’m not sure how you want us to vote. I voted ‘No’ because I won’t want that for myself 😉 but I certainly don’t think its wrong or weird or anything.

    Post # 5
    279 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I’m thinking about it…but my ‘appetite’ is about 10 times what FH’s is and I barely make it as long as between times as often as we have it now! It’d be nice but I can’t imagine actually being able to do it for any longer than a week :S.

    Post # 8
    1830 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    It wasn’t something I was into but to each their own.   Just bear in mind that you will be absolutely exhausted on your wedding night and having sex may be the last thing you feel like doing.   If you put a ban on it before the wedding, you may feel like you ‘have’ to do it that night and if you’re as exhausted as most brides I know are, having sex will not be very high on your priority list.  You’d hate for it to feel like a chore or just something you HAD to do on your wedding night….   don’t fall into this made up pressure of having to have wedding night sex.   Sex as a married couple is pretty darn awesome whether it happens on your wedding night or not! 🙂 

    Post # 9
    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    We’re not close enough to consider one, but it’s already basically been vetoed by my Fiance, haha. Some couple on TV was talking about one and he just turned to me and said “No.”

    Post # 10
    67 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I totally agree with Ree723…she has written exactly what I intended today!

    Post # 12
    345 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Nope, and chances of anything happening on the wedding night are pretty slim, I imagine we’ll be shattered, quite drunk and will just pass out lol, so before and after it is then 😀

    Post # 14
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    We didn’t have a “sex ban”. We did have sex on our wedding night, but we were both exhausted so it was kinda “meh”. The next  morning we left for our honeymoon and we had plenty of much more awesome sex there lol.

    Post # 15
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’ve had a sex ban my whole life thus far so waiting a few more months isn’t going to hurt hehe

    Post # 16
    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    We didn’t have a ban, but we did have an AWESOME wedding day/night.

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