Post # 1
Hello Everyone! I’m new to this forum.. a friend of mine suggested it to me, she said this website was a lifesaver for Her wedding! Anyway, me and my hubby to be are worried about our wedding night privacy, and here’s why. A few of our friends have already suggested that we go hang out after the wedding..Uh No! It gets worse!….my best friend suggested we come over her house after the reception for a movie night…I politely declined..and now she’s mad at me, saying im rude for saying no to the movie and drink night. Another one of my bridesmaids said well if we can’t go over my best friends house we can just all chill in me and future hubby’s hotel suite.. Have drinks and order pizza…Am I overreacting?? Should I just let them come into our suite after the reception? honestly me and future hubby just want some alone time after the wedding…my mom even thinks I’m being rude..Help bees! should me and future hubby stay in a different hotel room and not tell anyone where? <br style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-height: 1000000px;” /><br style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-height: 1000000px;” />
Post # 2
Hell no! You are not being rude. I would never in a million years even suggest to a friend that they spend their wedding night hanging out with me. Please do not give in. I personally would not tell anyone where I was staying. Hold your ground and spend your wedding night with your new husband, just the two of you. This is your day and nobody can tell you how to spend it.
Post # 3
I have heard of people going out to drink afterwards at a bar before, I think it all depends on what you want to do. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad, remind them that this is your wedding after all.
Post # 4
Why would anyone expect a newly married couple to hang out with them on their wedding night! Tell them no, the wedding night is for you and your husband to enjoy together. Tell them you plan on consumating all night and if they want to be there to watch then sure theyre welcome (not)! They are being pretty selfish in my opinion. Its fine for your bridesmaids to hang out together but this is YOUR night!
Post # 5
Yeah no I don’t think so. First off you will be dead tired from being up all day and the last thing you want to do is go out drinking with friends. I know some people do it because the reception ends early but for those who are having a late reception or just been up all day, the only thing they will want to do is go relax. It’s not rude on your part it’s rude on their part for not understanding and making a big fuss about it.
Post # 6
That is so bIzzarre. Are you sure they aren’t having you on? Seems like a joke to me.
Post # 7
I had the same impression as @mazzoffee – I thought it was a joke!
When does your reception end? If it ends late then no way would I even consider it. If I were you, I would politely explain to my friends that pizza and alcohol might get in the way of all the hot newlywed sex I plan on having on my wedding night. Raincheck!
Post # 9
this entire post seems like a joke.
On the off chance that it’s serious… who on earth ever heard of someone hanging out with a married couple on their wedding night! Of course you guys want to be alone. Lock the door and tell them to *ff off 🙂
Post # 10
- Wedding: November 2014 - Mauritius
Why the F*** would anyone suggest a couple spend their wedding night with anyone other than their new spouse?? And an even bigger WTF – then get annoyed at you about it? CRAZY! Say no!
Post # 11
lol are they wanting to set up camp in your suite to watch your ”first night” as their movie night! Tell them to get a life as you plan on having the most wildest sex ever and think that they are weird perverts for wanting to watch or something along those lines
I seriously think if anyone said that to me I would start laughing because its just too wierd! Surely your wedding day i all about you and your husband?
Do NOT let them know where your room is! I swear if my mum said something like that I would be finding it hard not to punch her.
Post # 12
Wtf? How old are these people? Why are they acting like your wedding day is every other day?
If my friends couldn’t understand that after being married THAT day that I would want to spend a romantic (or exhausted) night with my new husband that I just vowed my life too. I’d tell them to shove it. I’d be friendless for awhile and find new ones.
Movies and drinking are for every other frigging night of your life.
Post # 13
maybe things are done differently from the UK, do you guys not have a reception after? Usually we have one till midnight then i’m planning on head to bed!
Post # 14
Just say no cause you’ll be having sex with your husband. Blunt and honest response will shut eveyone up immediately, I guarantee you.
Post # 15
Your fi is totally being cock blocked! Don’t know what they all did on their wedding night but going by this they played a little twister then went to their separate 50s beds and got a good night’s kip.