Post # 1
My Fiance and I are Christians and are waiting until our wedding night to have sex. Our wedding day will also be our first kiss, and our first time really being very physical with each other. We can’t wait to be married and finally have the freedom to enjoy each other in this way!
We have talked a LOT about what we are expecting and hoping for. I’m not scared about the night at all, or really even nervous! Mostly just clueless. I have NO idea how the night is going to progress and how we get from arriving at our hotel in our wedding clothes to having sex. I just can’t visualize it.
So ladies, anybody who waited until the wedding night for sex, could you share your experiences (in as much detail as you feel comfortable with)? How did your wedding night go? Tips and suggestions? Anything you wish you’d known going into it?
Thanks in advance!
Post # 3
I would recommend not just jumping to intercourse that first night. There are so many other milestones along the way, ways to learn each others’ bodies, and figuring out what you need to be sexually fulfilled. I don’t think I could go from first kiss to sex in one night.
Post # 5
I didn’t wait wait but I agree with PP that you should work up to it slowly. There are a lot of things for you to experience and it is best to savor them all and take your time. For your first time, lots of foreplay, lube if you need it, and great communication.
Post # 7
@MrsSaltWaterTaffy: Thanks for the advice. One thing I do think we have strongly in our favor is that we already have really good communication about this whole area. We have talked about it SO much, because one thing we both knew is we didn’t want it to be completely awkward for us to talk about it on the wedding night. I think how comfortable we are discussing it will help a lot when the time comes.
Oh, and thanks to the ladies who have PMed me! I appreciate the advice SO much!
Post # 8
I would say dont expect much if you dont really know what to expect! Take it slow. It can happen your first night but dont stress if it doesnt. Especially if you are both virgins. Long night of partying PLUS trying to please your partner with something you have never done. take it slow, enjoy it, and it will be perfect for you guys.
Post # 9
i would say take it slow, your having your first kiss that day too so you will have so much to look forward to !
I would reccomend going to a christain book shop and finding some sex books. i know couples who waited til their wedding night and they said these books were very helpful just to get the idea of what you need to do!
Good luck and i hope you have a amazing time!
Post # 10
@lovelylady46: Good idea, thanks! We will do that!