- 6 years ago
- Wedding: February 2012
So, my fiance and I have both been divorced, and neither of us have had the best experience with intimacy in general (rape, dead fish, molestation etc.). We’ve been saving ourselves for marriage, so that it can be like we waited for our first time, but I have to admit that I’m terrified!
I have talked to him about it, and he gets nervous about it too, but I’m scared that I won’t be able to consumate properly because of my fear. I love him to death and want to be with him more than anything, but my fear sometimes grips me so hard that I’ve had to take an anxiety pill.
Did anyone go through something similar? How did/would you deal with it?