(Closed) wedding night sex

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Sekceyes: Yes. It is ok to say sex on the bee.

-Wear an outfit that makes you feel sexy

-Introduce a new toy in the mix

-Use something edible

-Do it with your boots on, or high heels.

-Try a new and exciting place to get your scrump on


Post # 4
1058 posts
Bumble bee

LINGERIE!!!! My bridal party threw a lingerie party or shower for me and they all got me some awesome stuff for our wedding night and honeymoon.

 I already wore one thing and it will be the only thing I will wear until the wedding… gotta surprise him. he he he well he LOVED IT!!!! so I highly recommend dressing up he and you will be very glad you did. 🙂

Post # 5
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think that just because it’s your wedding night, you’ll already be more excited than usual. (Mr.ND and I have dated 7.5 years. We already feel like an old married couple but I still think the night of is going to be extra-fun). Like @Mrs.tobe:, wear something that makes ya feel sexy and confident. You’ll likely still have your hair and makeup done and feel like a stunna, so just enjoy some time with you HUBS 🙂

Post # 6
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Buy a new piece of lingerie and surprise him with that. That is honestly enough. Darling Husband and I were really exhausted by the time we were finally getting down to business but it didnt matter. The sex that night was awesome (and wed been together over 4.5 years by the time of our wedding) and I think a lot of it just has to do with the fact that you are so excited and it’s your wedding night!

Post # 7
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

@Mrs.tobe: haha I just asked MrSImpleandchic whether he wants to get his scrump on he rolled his eyes….might need some boots ala jessica Simpson style

Post # 8
13096 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wore some new lingerie but that was really all it took.  You have so many extra and special emotions that are not present on a “typical” night because it is your Wedding Night!

All I did “extra” was wear new lingerie and I can promise you that my wedding night was not “same ol, same ol” for us!

Post # 9
5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Man, I had some sexy lingerie that I was way too tired to put on, LOL.  We left our reception at 3:00am, got back to the hotel, took my ridiculously heavy dress off and soaked in our whirlpool tub and opened our cards.  Haha, so sexy!  We did end up doing the deed, but man, I was so tired.

Post # 10
3011 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Just surprise him.  Do something differently that you haven’t done or occasionally engage in.

Post # 11
1730 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’ll have to agree with the lingerie sugestion – something you’d never have worn before if possible, to make it still ‘new’.  I remember reading in a book by Robert Heinlein about some characters preparing a bride for a wedding – the couple, in typical free-lovey Heinlein style were not shy first-time vigins, and had already known each other…Biblically – in fact, in order to get married under the rules these people folowed, the bride had to be preganant, so you knew they ‘knew’ each other.  So when one of the people preparing the bride sugggests buying a skimpy pair of silk panties, the other characters are like, “Why?  It’s not like it isn’t something he hasn’t seen.”  And the reply was kinda neat to me  – “Symbolic defloweration.  It lets them know they’re married.” (I think the was ‘Time Enough for Love’ or ‘To Sail Beyond the Sunset’ – both books cover with the same wedding at one point)

Corny, but I liked it.  I’d reccomend the full get-up of a white bustier or teddy with thigh high stockings and a garter belt – maybe some naughty undies that… you can leave on and still ‘get busy’, if you understand me. 

Post # 12
5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@simpleandchic: You are hilarious. Gosh, I love you so. 🙂

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