Post # 1
Any other brides close to their day and starting to have wedding nightmares? I find that I am now often having these terrible dreams… it’s the day before or the day of my wedding and everything is going wrong, or everything isn’t done yet!
Last night I dreamed that it was the day before the wedding… We hadn’t picked out the ceremony music yet. I didn’t bring the shoes that I was supposed to wear so I was going to have to go shopping for new shoes (we are getting married in the state where my parents live, not where we live). I was getting sick. And it was projected to rain. Then I realized we had completely missed our rehearsal…. that’s when I really started to panic and woke up. I always think “Thank goodness this hasn’t actually happened yet and we still have a month!” but it’s still unsettling. So much stress!
I hope I don’t have these dreams every night until the wedding! Any other brides having this happen too?
Post # 3
I’ve had a few wedding nightmares. Usually, everything is running really behind schedule and isn’t ready and I get so worried that the guests are going to be all annoyed! Last night I dreamt that not only was nothing set and ready but I forgot to put in my contacts and was really sad that I was going to be wearing glasses in all my pictures lol
Post # 4
@seAprilbride: I helped one of my girlfriends with her weddingbecause the Maid/Matron of Honor stopped. And then I started having nightmares – it wasn’t even MY wedding!
Post # 5
@seAprilbride: LOL me! I totally thought I wouldn’t too. My dreams don’t make any sense though, and I’ve only had a couple. One was me spilling red wine all over my dress (I don’t even drink, plus I hate wine). The other one was zombies at the wedding, but I’m pretty sure that’s becasue I had been watching walking dead on netflix lol.
Post # 6
I think I had 2 before my wedding. One was so absurd that it didn’t make me at all anxious (I showed up and a random person I never met was in my bridal party, and the girls were all wearing hideous dresses, even though we had already bought their dresses at that point). The other my hair and makeup people never showed up and I was freaking out and random people started just doing my hair and makeup…and that one had my heartrate up for a little bit after I woke up. I did call to re-confirm my appointment after that, LOL.
Post # 7
I bought a dress and we booked the venue… so of course I keep having dreams that I get pregnant. Ugh!
Post # 8
Yep! I had a dream that the wedding was moved to a Williams Sonoma and my dad forgot to get a suit, so he had to walk me down the aisle in a t-shirt and suspenders, and then our guests had to sit through a cooking demonstration before the ceremony.
Then I had another dream that our venue was moved to a random rec center and my bridesmaids were late and I couldn’t leave my apartment without them, so I was super late to my own wedding.
Post # 9
I had a dream recently where I was running so behind on my wedding day. My wedding starts at 4 PM, and for some reason, I was in the grocery store at 7 PM buying stuff for my reception. And in my dream I wasn’t walking normally; it was like I was walking through a swamp, so everything took even longer. I was so happy to wake up from that one.
Post # 10
I’ve had a few, but I actually thought it was pretty funny that Fiance had one last night! It was the day of the wedding and he realized we never got rings, so he broken into houses near the venue looking for them and almost got arrested, but talked his way out of it.
Post # 11
I’ve had at least 2 or 3 so far. I think one involved being way behind schedule, never having picked out any of the music, no rings, etc.
Post # 12
I’ve had a few. The worst was the one where something happens to us while getting ready, I don’t remember what, and I can’t get to the church. Then I get there hours late, but alone, without my family or bridal party, and they won’t let anyone in to see us get married. And I’m not in my dress or wearing makeup or anything. I’m just in glasses and jeans, but Fiance is in his tux and all of his people are there. They make us go down to the basement to have the ceremony, but no one lets me see Fiance first, and then no one would let me put on my dress before the reception. I woke up panicked and couldn’t figure out that it was just a dream.
Post # 13
I’m not engaged yet so no I haven’t had a wedding nightmare but I 100% know I will because I have had ring nightmares at least 3 times in the past couple weeks!! I am constantly dreaming that my ring gets screwed up & doesn’t turn out well and I hate it =( not looking forward to months of wedding nightmares lol
Post # 14
I’ve had one or two so far, I think. My Maid/Matron of Honor had one for my wedding lol. Apparently I picked 20 bridesmaids and it was a logistical nightmare.
Post # 15
I haven’t had any but my Maid/Matron of Honor did tell me she had one the other day. These are some of the things that went wrong.
- Girls who were not my bridesmaids walking down as my bridesmaids.
- My Maid/Matron of Honor forgot to change and had to walk down the aisle in jeans and a t-shirt.
- As I was walking down the aisle, the guests were chatting away instead of looking at me. This angered my Maid/Matron of Honor so she stormed off to look for the event manager and complain.
- She waited for two hours for the event manager, and upon her return, the wedding was over.
Yikes, I’m glad I’m not the one who dreamt it. 🙂
Post # 16
This is so funny because I just had one last night!! It was like I was drugged and was not sure what was going on. It was at the rehearsal and I was freaking out because I thought it was the actual wedding! I was wearing my dress to at the rehearsal!! So wierd!