Post # 1
My officiants husband passed away alittle over a month ago. I have sent condolences, as well as email messages letting her know that my thought are with her.
My questions is: How long do I wait to contact about her about my ceremony? The wedding is in 3 months.
I think I have the ceremony figured out, would just like her input.
what to do, what to do.
Post # 3
Have you had/do you have to have some pre-wedding meetings/counseling sessions? You could always call her or email her and again express your condolences and mention that you’re flexible with scheduling those meetings. That could be a nice way to mention it but in a no-pressure way.
I’m sure she understands that you guys are getting near to the big day, and just expressing your condolences again and making sure that you show that you respect her grief and the time she needs will most likely make her feel thought of rather than pressured.