Post # 1
My fiance doesn’t have many friends, he really only talks to his family. He plays softball, and interacts with those guys but only at the games. Me, I have a few very close friends, but he Doesn’t like the few friends i do have, which in turn i don’t talk to them or see them as much as i like. Anyways, we are having a big wedding (350 guests) and we just agreed on having 4 Bridesmaid or Best Man + my Maid/Matron of Honor, and 4 Groomsmen + his best man. But he doesn’t have any friends to ask to be in his Wedding Party and won’t ask my brothers bc he doesn’t really see them or doesn’t get along with them. am i wrong to be worried about his Wedding Party and him having friends, not only for the wedding, but worried about him not ever going out for “guys night” or having comeone else to talk to.
Post # 3
My Fiance is kinda in the same boat. He has only like 3 or 4 really close friends, but none of them really live all that near us and his best man is a littler older with a family and kids which means he doesn’t go out all that much. The friends that he did have when we starting dating have all turned out to be d-bags or only really make it a point to see him when it’s at their convenience. I think a lot of that has to do with his job and the small police agency he works at now though. I’m hoping that when he finds a new job, he’ll get more real friends. But aside from that we lucked out with is Wedding Party. We’re doing the same 1 best man, and 4 GM’s. We’ve included my brother, since he’s my only one and I knew it would mean a lot to him and the rest of my family, as well as me, for him to be a part of it.
Post # 4
I’ve been with my Fiance since our junior year in high school, we went to different high schools. But even in high school he only had a few friends and now he doesn’t really talk to them. He doesn’t get along with my brother in-law, and He doesn’t see my other brothers that much, one of them is in prison but hopefully he’ll be out and i think my fi want him, cuz they are pretty close. I’m just worried for my sanity and his that maybe he should have a confidant other than me. We aren’t getting married til 2015. Actually on our 7 year anniversary. So there’s time.